Nobody is really ready to hear this, but sometimes the painful truth is: you played a part in your own suffering. You ignored the signs. You stayed when you knew you should leave. You made choices that led you somewhere you never wanted to be. Not everything is your fault, but taking responsibility for what is yours is how you take your power back. Stop blaming everyone else for the consequences of your choices. You got yourself there, now choose yourself enough to get yourself out.
Be mindful of who you hurt. Some souls never fight back ~they weep, they pray, and they leave their pain in God’s hands. And when He steps in, His justice strikes far deeper than any revenge ever could.
I really think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind !
Not even physically tired !
Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed !
That kind of tired is different😮💨!
honestly, I look at rejection as life saving you from a bad fit.
when a job falls through, a relationship/friendship ends, or a plan totally bombs, it feels like a massive loss. but looking back, a lot of those huge disappointments were actually just necessary exits away from a dead end. in the moment, you can't see that the "dream job" would've burned you out or that you were slowly outgrowing the situation anyway.
losing what felt like the best option forces you to stop settling and aim higher. believing something better is coming isn't delusion, it's just keeping your eyes open for the next good thing, because what’s actually meant for you won’t require you to make it happen. it will unfold naturally.
Dear God/Universe,
Remove anyone from my life who is lying to me, using me, talking down to me, or pretending to love me. Remove anyone who is not meant to be in my life, and give me the strength not to go back to them. If they are not for me, let me lose the desire to need them, miss them, or look for them. Close every door that needs to be closed, and give me the peace to accept it without questioning You.
Amen.