it can REALLY be you. Homelessness, deaťh, no job…… Literally anything unfortunate can happen in the blink of an eye, life is crazy like that. Always stay humble and be grateful.
I remember telling my ex I was sad and depressed and he told me to “hang in there champ” i immediately checked out. That message is burned into my brain.
It’s a red flag if your partner becomes very mean to you when you guys are fighting. It is quite important to have a partner that can still be kind to you during arguments and fight. You should still feel the love even in chaos and during fights. A kind partner is key!
I saw a TikTøk where a girl said God talks a lot, like He actually talks all day, and that’s the kind of relationship and personal level I’m trying to get to with Him. I want that constant connection where I know it’s Him speaking, correcting, comforting, and leading me. 🥹🥹🥹🥹
I'm usually the person that tries to fix bonds and friendships but lately I’ve been letting people stand on how they feel. We ain't never gotta talk again. That's perfectly fine by me.
My man said he don’t like “arguing over little stuff.”
So I stopped bringing little stuff up. Now it’s “Why you acting distant?” Because I got tired of being told my feelings were small.
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
the best dating advice i got from my dad was,
“the signs you ignore in the beginning just end up being the reason you leave later. you know right away who’s good and bad for you. don’t ignore that.”
Ngl a woman cannot be your peace if you're not providing the environment for her to provide the peace. Stop expecting from a woman that you constantly are giving problems, challenges and you're not providing a safe space for her. Peace is present where security is found.