Underrated life advice: Become generous with your assumptions. Assume they were tired, not rude. Overwhelmed, not careless. Preoccupied, not distant. This doesn’t mean tolerate disrespect. It means stop turning every small moment into a personal attack. Grace makes life lighter.
The ADHD Watermelon Theory perfectly explains executive dysfunction. Neurotypicals see a delicious fruit and think, "I want a snack."
My ADHD brain sees a 15-pound administrative obstacle course involving heavy lifting, knife safety, kitchen logistics, sticky counter mitigation, and Tupperware geometric planning. So instead, I will starve.
That Harlem Shake run was different: Special Delivery, Roc Tha Mic, Who's That Girl, Let's Get It, and Holla Back Young'n.
No two songs did more to popularize the Harlem Shake than G. Dep's Special Delivery and Let's Get It. If you were outside in 2001-02, you already hip.