if there's one thing i have learned from the women before me, it is not to make huge life altering sacrifices for men. They do not deserve such loyalty and commitment
Someone once told me to read Surah Baqarah for 40 days without missing a day. Either your duas will be answered, or Allah will reveal the truth so clearly that you’ll no longer want it. I did that, but I wasn’t prepared for the truths Allah revealed. They still leave me in shock
I'm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, and add peace to my life.
As someone with much older friends, you will meet men and women who would be fond of you for no sexual reason whatsoever. They’ll be generous. They’ll buy you gifts. And they’ll want nothing in return.
It’s more common than you think.