The real flex is keeping a good heart when life keeps giving you reasons not to. When you been lied to, used, switched up on, and counted out... but you still show love. You still got loyalty in you. Still show up for people, even when nobody showed up for you.
Sometimes the best move is to quietly step away. No over-explaining, no back-and-forth, no chasing closure, no scenes, just silence. Stop overextending yourself for people who don’t value you 🫶🏻.
i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really
i'd be lying if i said i didn't get in my feelings about the way people treat me, but i've learned it's life & everybody isn't me. everybody don't show the same love i show.... &' for that i'll be okay
breakups are ok. losing friends is ok. moving on is ok. healing is ok. saying no is ok. being alone is ok. what is NOT ok is staying somewhere where you don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.
it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. a woman feeds off his energy. this is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. she can’t feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.