@fakedansavage have you ever heard the term "French vanilla" used in the lifestyle/kink world to describe someone who is mostly vanilla or who doesn't want to claim to be not vanilla? If not, I want credit for inventing the term.
@wegottathing just recently found your podcasts, we are on episode 11. You mention wearing black rings on right hand. Is this still a thing? We are ready to be more out about our activities. Thinking the black rings might be a good first step.