Cheating in marriage shouldn't be encouraged or normalized. We've embraced this toxic lie that "men are polygamous by nature" and somehow that justifies infidelity. But you encouraging and even supporting the idea that women should just accept cheating husbands shows how b*adly ra**ised you are and the kind of values your par*en*ts instilled in you.
Let me tell you something: there is NO woman who genuinely likes or enjoys having a cheating husband. NONE. The reasons some women stay aren't because they're "enjoying their marriage", it's because they're trapped. They're financially dependent, emotionally exhausted, or scared of the stigma of leaving. What you're calling "enjoyment" is actually survival mode. It's endurance, not happiness.
And let's be very clear: a cheating man with no remorse is not just flawed, he's destructive. He's selfish, reckless, and capable of ruining his entire family. Infidelity brings disease, broken trust, emotional trauma to the children, and a household built on lies. That's not a foundation for anything good.
You're out here celebrating women who "stood their ground" while their husbands disrespected them repeatedly? That's not strength, that's stockholm syndrome dressed up as virtue. Real strength is having standards, self-respect, and refusing to normalize betrayal.
The women who left toxic situations and rebuilt their lives? The ones who refused to be disrespected? Many of them are thriving now mentally, emotionally, and financially. Meanwhile, the ones who stayed in misery for the sake of "marriage" are often depressed, bitter, and raising children in dysfunctional homes.
Stop selling women this lie that enduring disrespect equals success. Stop shaming single mothers who chose dignity over dysfunction. And stop pretending that staying with a serial cheater is some kind of achievement. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership built on love, trust, and respect not a prison sentence where one person gets to do whatever they want while the other "enjoys" the crumbs.
And normalizing infi*del*ity because "that's just how men are" is exactly why some men continue to act like ani*m*als with no accountability.
Do better. Teach better. Be better.
One of the beauties of Fiqh is that it is not black and white; it responds to situations differently, giving each reality the ruling it deserves.
That's why the studies of the science of Usul Al Fiqh is very beautiful.
Let's discuss Custody for a bit.
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If you live through life without the regular nawaafil prayers...
without witr, without dhuha, without reciting even a portion of the Qur’an daily, without morning and evening adhkār…
without seeking knowledge, voluntary fasting, voluntary sadaqah (charity), or any deeds that earns you the love of Allah...
then don’t be surprised if you lose happiness and peace in this life, and don’t be surprised if you stand empty-handed in the akhirah.
Allah rises people through different doors:
One through the gate of fasting, another through salah, another through charity, another through maintaining family ties, and another through striving in Allah’s cause.
The voluntary acts of worship build your rank in this world, in the loneliness of the grave, and in jannah.
Hold firmly to these acts. They are your stored treasures for this world and the hereafter.
Domino effect of feeding wild animals
- you feed a wild animal and IF that animal doesn’t attack you, you have a cool little interaction
- this animal now sees humans as a food source
- this animal expect other humans to feed it and approach’s them
-they may or may not have food, the interaction goes poorly and now a person has been attacked and/or killed and an animal is being put down for simply being an animal
Stop feeding wild animals
@AmynaAbu Juice??? I don't know about that one fa 😂😂. I'm not sure it's edible. Probably hollow inside. It has humidifying properties ne. I'll share when I find it in shaa Allah.
Domestic airlines NEED to stop telling passengers that their refund process takes 4 weeks.
There can't be two captains-in-command on an aircraft.
The NCAA regulations are clear about the timeframe for ticket refunds, and it is 14 days. Part 19 of the NCAA Regulations 2023 remains in force. Operators cannot create a different rule in this regard.
To all passengers: if you apply for a refund and an airline tells you that it would take 4 weeks, kindly forward that communication to [email protected][email protected][email protected] immediately.
Enough of this. We cannot all claim to be working for the improvement of the industry and be duplicating rules in a manner that undermines the Authority and is unfair to passengers.
@AmynaAbu I don't know too. I heard it's called tagiri in yoruba and Christmas melon in English. It is also a good humidifier. That's actually what I want to use it for. My house usually mold this season. But I don't know what to call it or where to buy it.