Emotionally unavailable men will ruin you.
And I'm not saying that lightly. I'm saying it from a place of watching too many women with big hearts and soft souls break themselves trying to love men who simply can't love them back.
Stay away from men who think emotional connection is optional, who call you "too sensitive.
who make you feel like you're asking for too much simply because you want love that feels present intentional, and real. Because the truth is, no matter how loving, loyal, or patient you are you cannot pour into a man who's emotionally empty. it's about him. His fears.
His refusal to do the inner work.
You deserve someone who's available
Your softness, your empathy, they deserve a home in a man who's ready to receive, nurture and retur them. Don't waste your heart on a man who's numla to love.
Save your heart for someone who doesn't just want it but knows how to hold it.
Rihanna said consistently throughout her career she wanted a family so Iโm so happy she got to have it all. I will stream those 8 albums she gave us and wear my kilawatt highlight and be grateful.