thankfully i am wired to accept things quickly and i believe its why i handle breakups really well. I don’t see myself as an exception to a man. I am not desperate to be loved or chosen + i have work and hobbies.
“my ex fumbled” is never in my lingo and i smirk when my friends say that. i think believing you were fumbled comes from a place of ego. Protecting your ego by playing victim because you don’t want to hold yourself accountable for choosing to stay in that situation.