Doris Nchelem Amadi

Public Health Practioner/An Environmentalist and sustainability activist /Health and safety Officer/Data Analysts/vVirtual Assistant…and more

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

This woman reports that her little niece was kidnapped last night. She has been appealing to the public to help her share this video incase someone may have seen the little girl.

Please help share this video.
Let’s help find this innocent little baby.

[Oluwaseun Alatishe @OluwaseunAlati5]

He is still missing, please repost until he is found.

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@itzchristunique Most people get job through this. Is not new. Maybe your sister is not ready for the job. So people pay upfront. And is for 6months not 1yr. And the payment is after getting the job. A lot of people are even looking for this opportunity.

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@OvwomaB I make mine myself. So I’m so so proud of it. unique soap😂

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@hombreinteligen @General_Oluchi You made sense in your post. But this your reply is trash. She can’t change. Someone that is okay. Even her husband is 100 times better than you. Grow up.

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@hombreinteligen @General_Oluchi Co-ask.

[Jane Chijioke @JNdioma]

You will be saving a mother just by retweeting

[Omo Kogi (Yagba) 🌍 @harrysone9]

Nigerians are always quick to move on, but if this pops up on your timeline, repost it; it costs you zero naira.

It’s been three weeks now.

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@karizma_042 @Allezamani I wonder ooh

[Benkingsley Nwashara @Benking443]

ANDROID USERS, READ THIS!

Your phone says "Storage Full."
So you delete photos. Delete videos. Uninstall apps. Yet the storage barely moves.

That's because the real culprits aren't your photos or apps. it's the hidden junk Android quietly stores in the background

Here's how I cleaned my phone yesterday and recovered 35GB without deleting a single photo, video, app, or chat I actually use.

Here's exactly how I did it:

👇🏼👇🏼

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@OXJ0SHUA @UnkleAyo This is also my perspective. Most men you see misbehaving are usually men that used to be good men.

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@Toniatuslim Weldone. Your boss is a good person by giving you the opportunity. That opportunity birthed the expert you’re today.

[Ugochukwu Madu @UgochukwuCFR]

Damn! Thank you for this. I just followed the instructions and turned mine OFF. They clearly stated they’re using my data for the improvement of third-party products and services.🤔

[Talk2veee @talk2veee]

While I was in China, there was a particular area in my hotel that I always used whenever I needed to pack my goods.
Because of the volume of things I buy, packing is not something I can in one small corner. The hotel staff knew this, so they always gave me a dedicated space where I could spread everything out and arrange my goods properly before shipping.

Whenever we were there packing, some Nigerian men hanging around the hotel would stop by to greet me. They were always surprised. Some of them were curious about my business. Others were surprised that a Nigerian woman was staying in that particular hotel.
According to them, it wasn’t the kind of hotel business people usually stayed in. It was the type of place wealthy people came to relax and enjoy themselves. Business travellers usually stayed elsewhere.

I would always hear “Ah ah, you are hardworking o.”
“How do you even do all this?”

One of the men became a regular visitor whenever he saw me packing. Every time, he would stand there watching me work and shaking his head in admiration. At a point even, he joined the guy that does my packing to do the job.

One day he said, “I pray I marry a woman like you ooh. A hardworking woman. A woman that is serious and doing something with her life.”

I laughed.

Then I told him something, “The truth is that many of you will get the kind of woman you are praying for. You will meet women who are resourceful, hardworking, entrepreneurial and ambitious. The problem is not finding them. The problem is what happens after marriage.”

He looked at me trying to understand me.

I continued.

“A lot of women don’t stop shining because they suddenly became lazy. They stop shining because the environment no longer allows them to shine.”

I told him about women I had known over the years, women who were doing well in business. Women who had thriving makeup brands. Women who had successful tailoring shops. Women who were building something meaningful.

Then marriage came, and little by little, everything started disappearing.

Today it is, “My husband said I shouldn’t go out. Tomorrow it is, “My husband doesn’t like me travelling.” Next week it is, “My husband wants me at home.”

Before long, the business that once had so much potential is nowhere to be found.

I went further to tell him that I have two children in Nigeria. My husband has a full time job but here I am thousands of miles away from home.

I spent one whole month in China. Not once did my husband call me to ask where something was.

He woke up early morning to get them ready for school together with the helps. He cooked. He did school runs and still went about his day.

Not once did he call to complain that the house was falling apart. Not once did he make me feel guilty for travelling.

In fact, there were days I was so busy that I didn’t even speak to my family. Yet everything continued to run smoothly. The children were fine. The home was fine.

Life continued normally.

If you marry tomorrow and your wife needs to travel for one month because of her business, can you genuinely support her? Can you take responsibility without resentment? Can you hold things down at home without making her feel like she has committed a crime by pursuing her goals?”

He immediately said yes.

He said he would support her and make sure she had everything she needed to succeed.

I smiled and told him I hoped so.

Because the truth is that many men admire successful, confidence, intelligence and result driven women.

But when it is time to make the sacrifices that allow that woman to remain successful, many disappear.

Everybody wants the fruit.

Very few people are willing to help water the tree.

A woman does not stop being a wife because she has dreams and a husband does not become less of a man because he supports his wife’s dreams.

If you want a woman who is thriving, growing and building something meaningful, then you must also be willing to create room for her to thrive, grow and build.

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@samson_samsen @UnkleAyo Dey play. I went to braid my hair and the number of beautiful ladies I saw no be here. And I was like. No wonder men cheat. Different shapes. Discipline at the end of the day is key. As men, you will see beautiful women tire😂. Just Dey with the one you choose.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

To those of you that do sleepovers, at your boyfriends' - especially interstate.

You see the state of the nation bah, don't use your innocent friend as alibi when you're actually going to cook totonut rice.

If dem thief you, your parents should not go and arrest your friend o.

[Dr. Priyam Bordoloi @DocPriyamMD]

A 1st-year med student asked me today: "Sir, if we feel extremely hungry but skip the meal, why does the hunger completely disappear after some time? Shouldn't it just keep getting worse?"

I am surprised most students don't know the actual endocrinology behind this.

[Mayor Of Calabar @Uno_009]

If you can’t go out for the protest, the least you can do is to repost 😢

Please let's repost and share massively😭

#BringBackOurChildren
#BringBackOurChildren
#BringBackOurChildren
#BringBackOurChildren

[Doris Nchelem Amadi @Nchelight]

@maxvayshia @ATsobaza I don’t know. Maybe is only the people involve that can answer the why.

[Samuel @SamuelIse3]

It won't cost you zero Naira, please retweet massively.💔💔