Ami Nchups

A Man // Husband // Father // Uncle // Upholder of Traditional values // Masculinity // Femininity // Agbafian 💯 // Relationship // Marriage // God's Witness.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

A Father holds the family; Families hold a community; Communities hold a society; Societies hold a Nation. Fathers are the Foundation. They are the Roots. Any problem we face today, stems from the roots. We need strong Men to Lead our wives, children and families: Fathers.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

This is just so real. And until you are a victim, you won't understand.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

Sexual discipline is a flex in this generation. It’s not only HIV and STIs. Some women also carries curses and bad luck. Be careful, bro. I beg you.

[aura_divinum @auradivinum]

But, I don't know why it's that way. Overly religious people are the worse wives, worse husbands, worse employee, worse bosses.

An overly religious wife will disrespect her husband but kneel to her pastor. She has the worse character at home, but the best character in church. She probably even goes early to clean the church without cooking for her husband and kids.

An overly religious husband will lose his mind at home, abuse his wife, starve his kids and convert the starvation to "fasting and prayers".. but stand on the alter to preach "peace" and "holiness".

An overly religious employee will break office rules just to attend a mid-week service. They'll come to work late, because they were awake for hallelujah challenge and slept very late. They'll complete the sleep at the office, and then expect their employer to overlook their haphazard and lackadaisical work.

An overly religious employer? The worse. They won't even employ you if you can't speak in tongues.

In church, we had a conference... and one woman was preaching about love. This is same woman that I didn't even know was my stylist's mum. You wouldn't even know she is married or have kids. I was even thinking she's widowed. She hardly ever smiles.

When she asked if anyone had a question. I indicated, and then I asked why we have never seen her with her husband, and why she's always frowning. She went chill.

Because honestly, she doesn't embody the love she preaches. She burnt her kids clothes, bought by her husband - their father, and made them Ankara so they don't "reveal" their bodies.

She fortunately or unfortunately passed away, and her kids now look so good. They didn't shed a single tear on her burial.

Overly religious people are wicked people. They're people who have been "tried" in life, and then resorted to God. Not because they acknowledge God as their maker and shield, but because they want God to solve their problems. When their problems aren't solved, they become more bitter and dangerous. But, they're deaconesses in church.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

@_falsi1ke Money: Invest more than you consume.
Women: Stand your ground, and never appear weak. Don't accept a "mistake" twice.
Business: Start and grow something. It's better than working for others.
Faith: There's only One God. You can know him through an encounter with Christ Jesus.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

@KAA_Truths My heart 💔

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

@KAA_Truths Exactly. Enough of all these. I myself is tired of all the killing, while our leaders are doing little to nothing. We are dying.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

@KAA_Truths How possible would it be? Is democracy in Africa really a reality? I wonder. It seems to be on paper, while dictatorship rules on ground.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

@KAA_Truths The things most of us pray for in our country are provided for, by the Government in other countries. How should I explain this to a Christian whose only hope of survival is on God? God, touch the hearts of our leaders to reveal your Glory.

[Ami Nchups @Nchups3]

@KAA_Truths This really calls for research. Argument without presenting facts backed by reliable sources is foolishness. And people often express how foolish they are.
Keep feeding us knowledge.

[Eric @amerix]

These medicines are for a baby who fell ill with:

• a runny nose

• fever

• irritability

• lack of appetite

His father rushed him to a high-end private hospital in Nairobi.

The hospital concluded that he had a "bacterial infection."

He was treated with antibiotics and released.

Two days later, he was taken back, and this time, he was admitted for 2 days because of a "bacterial infection."

He was then discharged with all those medicines.

Unbelievable!

Here is the point:

- There is nothing like "a bacterial infection." This is a scam by hospitals to siphon your money.

- No baby requires all those medicines, but because we refer to our children as "kids," we have dehumanized them, and hospitals see them as lab rats.

- This baby suffered a respiratory viral infection (common cold), which is self-limiting. Steam inhalation with basil, rosemary, lemon grass, mint leaves, cinnamon, ginger, cloves, and cardamom would have stabilized this baby.

- Exposing the baby to the SUN, giving the baby MUTTON FAT, and feeding it CHICKEN SOUP was enough to heal this baby.

- This baby will have to heal from the disease and also from the consequences of the medicines.

- Loading our babies with medicines weakens their immunity, and they will, therefore, be in hospitals like hospital curtains.

- Feed your children food, not processed products, such as yoghurt, juice, sausages, sugar, and cereals. Give them food, not products.

- If this baby goes back to the hospital, the father will be told it is tonsilitis, and the hospital will propose tonsillectomy. An ignorant parent will fall for such conmanship.

Finally,

Most of you don't listen.

You are brainwashed by the system that if I wake you up, you think I am just whining.

Then, when things get out of hand, that is when you crawl into my inbox with questions,

"My child is bla bla bla, what should I do?"

CHANGE or PERISH.

#BetterTogether

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You see...

There are lots of things to unpack in relationship dynamics.

Which is why I am a strong advocate of building and bonding.

You see this mentality of women waiting for men at the finish line?

It mostly doesn't always go well.

A man has been single for a long time.

[Andrew Tate @Cobratate]

If this gets 2000 retweets I’ll start a thread of free fitness tips.

[Eric @amerix]

The period between September and December 2025 will be silent.

It will be a period of self-reflection for most people.

Because people will focus on things that will uplift them and their families.

There will be silence and numbness.

People are waiting for the new year to begin afresh, again, hoping this time they will overcome their challenges.

Therefore, this is the time to avoid distraction and focus on creating value for yourself.

Focus on pursuing activities that will empower your health, mind and spirit.

Refuse to be drawn into the drama of the masses.

Start connecting with your innermost spiritual energy and let this moment be a time of revelation.

You know your life, your pain, your struggles and your dreams.

Don't let the drama of the masses vex your spirit and stain your state of mind.

• Pursue serenity.

• Live in peace.

• Avoid conflicts with people.

• Restrain yourself from arguments and fights.

• Don't fight or drag other people.

• Don't be jealous.

• Focus on what you can control and ignore what is beyond you.

• Accept circumstances beyond your control and focus on what you can change or improve for your own good.

Focus on achieving a peaceful life.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

This frustrated woman is describing the kind of men who insult and troll me on X.

The men who have refused to MAN-UP!

This one is probably a fatherless mama's boy waiting to be pampered by the mother.

They get angry at me for calling out their incompetence and irresponsibility.

Don't be this kind of man.

Don't frustrate someone's daughter.

Marriage is not a bed of roses.

It is a responsibility.

Don't marry a woman if you are not ready to MAN UP!

#MasculinitySaturday

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Except it's a mutual friend, family or business partners, couples are supposed to excuse each other when they have visitors.

You make the visitor uncomfortable by your presence.

Leave your wife/husband to attend to their visitors & go into the room.

What they're discussing is

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Let me use this DM to warn young single women.

Before you accept to marry any man, please make sure he has his own apartment.

And that apartment is not his father's house.

Except he inherited it and his father is late and the mother or siblings do not live with him.

[Isaac O. @theisaacola]

Money isn’t hiding from you.
It’s simply waiting for you to understand its language.

I wasn’t broke. I was uninformed, but these 22 money terms changed my story, and they can change yours too.

Let’s make it make sense together.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Even if you learn nothing else from me, please learn this.

Legitimate ways of living is the best legacy that you can bequeath to your children.

Even if you die poor trying.

You can forget me and everything that I stand for.

But never forget this one.

End.

[Eric @amerix]

Most women get into good marriages that are led by responsible men.

Then they begin listening to 'friends' who are in bad marriages or single frustrated women who begin feeding them inciteful and misleading information.

Their marriages begin sinking.

Then, they join chaotic WhatsApp & Facebook groups that further stoke their arrogance and rudeness.

Finally, the marriage dies. The man loses attraction from her and begins looking for an escape route.

The woman will now jump from one man to the next looking for a better man because she is now 'free' and 'independent'.'

Inadvertently, they find themselves on the pulpit leading the praise and worship team singing Mercy Chinwo's songs, singing loudly while crying, expecting God to do some miracle of delivering them a 'responsible, God-fearing man.'

Then she ends up with a God-fearing white knight whom she hates, she becomes chaotic, even worse, then the pastor is called to intervene because our 'brethren's marriage has been attacked by satan',

Then, the pastor begins chewing the woman.

Then, the woman's life becomes worse.

— then, she calls men, 'DOGS!'

#BetterTogether

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

See, when I keep telling people that there’s nothing anyone can do to truly hurt me anymore, they think I’m just blabbing.

But they don’t know what I’ve been through. I was remanded in prison for a whole week. Not because I did anything wrong, but because the woman I loved, the one I made my wife, lied against me.

Just because she wanted a divorce.

That moment changed me.

After I got out on bail and later won the case in court, I could’ve turned bitter. But I didn’t.
I forgave her.

Not because she deserved it, but because I refused to let bitterness own me.

[Eric @amerix]

A step-dad will never be your FATHER,

That is why we call him a step-dad,

He is a dad.

A dad is NOT a FATHER.

FATHER means ABBA.

ABBA is an Aramaic word which means the SOURCE, the PROGENITOR.

Mark 14:36

Romans 8:15

Galatians 4:6

No matter how much you endear yourself to your step-dad, he will never see you as his seed.

He only rescued your mother and not you.

You are not part of him.

You are not part of his DNA.

Therefore, it is only your FATHER who will give you a sense of identity and belonging.

He doesn't have to be alive. The knowledge of his home and grave is enough.

You don't have to ask him for anything. He will think your narcissistic mother has sent you to come-back.

Simply connect with him. This is important.

A man without a source of identity will always be conflicted and suffer from an identity crisis.

This suffering pours into his wife and children, thereby perpetuating the cycle of conflict and emptiness in the family.

Therefore, unless you connect with the source of your identity, you will always be consumed by the burden of living in denial.

Only MEN will understand why this is important.

Boys will continue whining and saying bad things about their fathers that they were told by their equally bitter mothers.

Unless you connect with the source of your fatherhood, you will never have peace in your life.

IGNORE your mother's bitterness towards your FATHER and connect with him.

It is about YOU, YOUR CHILDREN, and YOUR LEGACY.