I take EVERYTHING as a sign from God in life. Any small inconvenience. Like maybe I didn't need to go to this place, maybe I don't need this person in my life, that job may not be for me, and maybe this is saving me from something only GOD can see. No loses forever lessons.
I think every woman hits that season where she's not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You move differently. You don't explain.. you just shift. That's maturity mixed with grace.