You come online and see stories of lynching and betrayal by so-called friends, and you're grateful for keeping your circle small. Some people can be wicked for no reason, even envious of the little you have. May God continue to protect us all.
Not dt I support rapists, bt some of u dnt understand d kind of damage a false rape accusation can cause in a man’s life. Dts why it’s easy 4 some1 to come online and claim 2 be a victim just to destroy another person’s reputation. Sometymz, it feels like d world is against men
It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you can’t afford to lose access, help, or opportunities.
It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes.
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Y’all will literally drain the niceness outta a person… and then act shocked when they stop being sweet. Ain’t nobody born mean… people get worn down, disrespected, and pushed there.
A lesson I learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away.
It's quite ok.
Give yourself unreserved permission, to unfollow, unfriend, unshare, un-be, undoubtingly, unapologetically, from where, with whom, you no longer belong.
You'll know when.
Watching or listening to the news these days can be traumatic. Can’t we have just one day of good news in this country? Worst of all, even the place of worship—the last resort for the common man—is no longer safe. How did it come to this?
According to the RATEL cult, it is acceptable to fight in public, even on a plane. The kind of behaviour we encourage today will inevitably come back to haunt us, and future generations will learn from it...