WOMEN CANNOT be a "Pastor". There is not ONE SINGLE verse that gives qualifications for anyone except MEN to assume the role of a Pastor (Bishop) & Deacon. This is a complete abomination to God and His perfect structure of His Body and His Church. This is nothing less than Satan at work to destroy souls.
God is NOT confused about gender roles, church order, or spiritual authority. The Lord established His Church with divine order and specific qualifications for leadership. Scripture NEVER gives the office of Pastor, Bishop, or Deacon to women.
1 Timothy 3:1-2 KJV
“This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife...”
1 Timothy 3:12 KJV
“Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife...”
The qualification is MALE leadership.
Strong’s Concordance:
“Husband” = Greek anēr = a man, male, husband.
God also explicitly forbids women from exercising spiritual authority over men in the Church.
1 Timothy 2:11-14 KJV
“Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”
This command was NOT based on culture but on CREATION ORDER itself.
God created men and women equal in VALUE before Him, but DIFFERENT in roles and authority. Satan has always attacked God’s order from the beginning.
1 Corinthians 14:33-34 KJV
“For God is not the author of confusion...
Let your women keep silence in the churches...”
Strong’s Concordance:
“Confusion” = Greek akatastasia = disorder, instability, disturbance.
There is NOT ONE biblical example of a woman serving as a Pastor, Bishop, or elder over a congregation. The Apostles appointed MEN as elders in the churches.
Titus 1:5-6 KJV
“Ordain elders in every city... If any be blameless, the husband of one wife...”
Women absolutely CAN serve God, teach children and other women, witness, pray, help the saints, and proclaim the Truth of the gospel personally, but NEVER by overturning God’s ordained authority structure within the Church.
Titus 2:3-5 KJV
“The aged women likewise...
That they may teach the young women...”
The modern rebellion against biblical roles is not “progress.” It is open rebellion against the Word of God and His created order.
Romans 16:17 KJV
“Mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.”
The Church belongs to JESUS CHRIST, not modern culture. God’s structure is PERFECT, holy, and for His glory.
- Jerry Hatcher
The feminists have come out in full force and hate this on my Facebook page. Have you ever wondered why marriage is no longer popular, and most wives are initiating divorce? Because being a kind and loving wife repulses them. 😥
Godly womanhood... the very phrase sounds strange in our ears. We never hear it now. We hear about every other type of woman: beautiful women, smart women, sophisticated women, career women, talented women, and divorced women. But so seldom do we hear of a godly woman—or of a godly man either, for that matter. We believe women come nearer to fulfilling their God-given function in the home than anywhere else. It is a much nobler thing to be a good wife than to be Miss America. It is a greater achievement to establish a Christian home than it is to produce a second-rate novel filled with filth. It is a far, far better thing in the realms of morals to be old-fashioned than to be ultra-modern. The world has enough women who know how to be smart. It needs women who are willing to be simple. The world has enough women who know how to be brilliant. It needs some who will be brave. The world has enough women who are popular. It needs more who are pure. We need women, and men, too, who would rather be morally right than socially correct. - Peter Marshall
A woman who fears the Lord dresses herself modestly because she knows that her body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and that her actions affect other people. She doesn't want others to stumble because of her. She dresses not out of pride or wanting to get the attention of men, but rather she dresses to glorify the One who created her.
-Women should adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; but (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. - 1 Timothy 2:9-10
-You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery WITH her in his heart. - Matthew 5:27-28
A Christian woman who loves and fears the Lord is sober-minded: she is not a drunkard, not intoxicated, not irrational, not impulsive in her actions, not tempestuous, not wild, and not visionary or heated with passion. Because she knows without discipline and a sound mind, she can’t walk after the Spirit and obey God's commandments. She can’t do her Christian duties as a mother, a wife, a friend, a neighbor, or a member of the church and society with love and wisdom if she is not sober-minded.
-Teach the young women to be SOBER. - Titus 2:4
-Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: -1 Peter 5:8
-Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ; -1 Peter 1:13
-Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;-Titus 2:12
-Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober. - 1 Thessalonians 5:6
-But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer. - 1 Peter 4:7
-But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation. - 1 Thessalonians 5:8
-If ye love me, keep my commandments. - John 14:15
-Love your neighbor as yourself. ’- Matthew 22:39
Sensuality is a public advertisement of the condition of the heart. It proceeds from a wicked heart. Mark -23 for from within out of the heart of man proceed the evil thoughts, fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries, deeds of coveting and wickedness, as well as deceit, SENSUALITY, envy, slander, pride and foolishness. Sensuality is a deed of the flesh in Galatians the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are immorality, impurity, sensuality. A woman can properly be called beautiful; a woman can be properly called elegant, but a woman who is sensual has an evil heart. - Paul Washer
Sisters, flee from sensuality, impurity, and immorality, and educate your children on the same thing. A woman who is redeemed by Christ is no longer a slave to sin but a slave of righteousness.
Being a married man in 1990:
-Leading the home.
- S3x when you want
-Coming home to peace and quiet.
-Children respecting their father without negotiation.
-Arguments staying private.
- Wife cooks and cleans
-Men having authority in the home
Being a married man in 2026:
Sin is attractive in the beginning. That’s how it deceives.
Fornication is normalized because people focus on temporary pleasure while ignoring permanent damage.
Sexual sin doesn’t just affect the body.
It wounds the mind, emotions, convictions, and spiritual life.
Many people now carry private regret, broken trust, emotional scars, and silent shame because they gave themselves to people who never truly valued them.
Culture glorifies lust.
God still calls for holiness.
Purity may not be popular in this generation, but it is still powerful.
“Let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity.” — 2 Timothy 2:19
Is it loving to leave your kids in daycare or with others for 9 to 10 hours per day, five days a week? Will you leave Jesus in the care of others if God gives you the chance to be His mother in order to pursue your career or material wealth and achievement? Mother, your unique love for your children is what stands out from strangers. Loving your children means nourishing them with good food; keeping an eye on them like the shepherd that ABIDES with the field to watch his flocks (Luke 2:8); guarding them like a fully armed man who guards his palace and what's inside it in peace (Luke 11:21); and preserving them from danger and sin, just like Jesus does to His people (John 17:12). That is how important your presence is to your children. That's why God commands you to love them and be keepers of your home (Titus 2:4-5).
Marriage, motherhood, and homemaking are divine and sacred callings for women; they are not small, and they are certainly not limited. It is higher and greater and far more significant than anything the world has to offer. Women, we are not created to live for temporary gain or fleeting pleasures, nor are we created for a life that will one day fade into nothing. We are created for divine purpose, for eternity, and for God's glory.
How to raise a girl to be a good wife
(a practical guide for mothers)
Begin with her heart
Don’t aim first at polish. Aim first at character.
Teach her early:
“You tell the truth, even when you feel ashamed.”
“You treat people as persons, not as obstacles.”
“You repair quickly when you do wrong.”
“You do your duty before you do your preferences.”
A good wife does not become good because she stays sweet. She becomes good because she grows steady.
Train respect without weakness
Some women confuse respect with silence. Some confuse strength with contempt. Both mistakes damage a home.
Teach your girl to honour men—especially her father and brothers—without letting anyone mistreat her. Teach her to speak without eye-rolling, mocking, or sarcasm.
Contempt feels clever, but it kills love.
At the same time, teach her to hold boundaries with calm clarity:
“No.”
“That’s not kind.”
“You may not speak to me that way.”
“Let’s talk when we’re calm.”
She needs both gentleness and backbone.
Give her the skill of talking well
Many marriages suffer because no one knows how to speak plainly without attacking.
Teach her a simple pattern:
Feel – Need – Request
“I feel ___ when ___. I need ___. Would you ___?”
Teach her to ask directly instead of hinting, testing, or punishing with silence. A good wife becomes a safe place because she speaks the truth in love.
Then teach her how to listen:
“Tell me more.”
“So you mean…”
“That makes sense.”
A husband thrives when his wife becomes his ally, not his critic.
Make quick repair a house rule
Don’t let bitterness sit and harden.
Teach her to apologise with precision, not drama:
“I did ___. It was wrong because ___. Next time I will ___. Will you forgive me?”
And teach her to forgive in a sane way: forgiving does not mean pretending nothing happened. Forgiving means she stops collecting revenge and chooses peace, while still requiring real change when needed.
If she can repair, she can keep a marriage alive.
Teach emotional steadiness, especially with anger
Anger will visit every home. A good woman learns to govern it before it governs her.
Train this habit:
Pause → Name your emotion → Choose the next right act
- lower the voice
- step away for ten minutes
- pray one short prayer
- return and speak with respect
Teach her that tears can be honest, but tears must not become a weapon. Teach her that volume is not strength. Teach her that calm firmness is strength.
Form her view of intimacy with purity and courage
A wife must not treat intimacy as a bargaining chip. She must not treat it as an obligation she resents either.
Teach her this simple truth: marital love is a mutual gift, not a tool for control.
Also teach her chastity long before marriage:
- She does not dress, speak, or behave to fish for attention.
- She does not tolerate secret relationships, porn habits, or manipulation.
- She does not use sexuality to keep a man from leaving.
Train her to value herself as a daughter of God. That dignity becomes the foundation of her future tenderness.
Make her competent in the work of a home
A good wife doesn’t need to become a stereotype. She does need competence.
Before she leaves home, teach her to:
- cook several simple meals
- clean thoroughly
- do laundry properly
- plan groceries for a week
- host guests simply without panic
- care for younger children with patience
Competence lowers stress. Stress fuels fights. Order creates peace.
Teach money maturity and honesty
Many couples fight about money when they really fight about trust.
Give her practice while she lives under your roof:
- a simple budget
- a saving goal
- a generosity habit
- honest tracking
Teach her: “You don’t hide spending. You don’t play games. You don’t let fear drive you into control.”
Teach her how to choose a husband
A good wife begins with wise discernment.
Teach her to look for:
- faithfulness
- kindness under stress
- steady work ethic
- self-control
- truthfulness
- a man who repairs quickly
- a man who honours women
Teach her to avoid:
- secrecy
- manipulation
- contempt
- uncontrolled anger
- chronic passivity
- sexual pressure
Tell her plainly: attraction can start a story, but character sustains a marriage.
Raise her with a simple rule of life with God
A woman needs a higher anchor than her feelings.
Teach her:
- a morning offering
- a nightly examen
- Sunday Mass
- a rhythm of confession and real amendment
When she kneels before God, she stands straighter in her vocation—whether as wife, mother, or single woman.
Watch for the four poisons and uproot them early
These grow quietly if you excuse them:
1. Contempt (mockery, sarcasm, scorn)
2. Control (manipulation, pressure, testing love)
3. Indulgence (phone addiction, comfort as master)
4. Fear (anxiety that demands constant reassurance)
Train the opposite virtues: honour, trust, discipline, courage.
Remember what she learns most
Your girl will become what she watches you do.
Let her see you:
- apologise without excuses
- speak respectfully about your husband
- work faithfully without martyrdom
- handle stress without cruelty
- pray when life feels dull
- serve without keeping score
That example will preach louder than your advice.
Raise her to become a woman who brings peace, clarity, and warmth into a home.
If you only praise God for what He gives you, then you will despise Him for what He takes away. When we say Jesus is Lord, we are saying all is His. Therefore, His generosity is grace and His taking away is just. - Dale Partridge
I watched a woman break down in regret, and it cut deep.
Years ago, a Christian man proposed to her. He told her she didn’t have to grind herself into the ground. She could build a home. Raise children. Be covered. Be protected. Be cherished. She was offended. Feminism told her that offer was an insult… that dependence was weakness… that partnership was oppression.
She chose the lie.
Years later, the tears came. Not tears of anger… tears of realization. She had everything feminism promised and nothing it could sustain. No family legacy. No peace. No covering. Just exhaustion, resentment, and the haunting knowledge that the door she slammed shut never reopened.
This is what liberal feminism never shows women.
It can’t love you.
It can’t protect you.
It can’t age with you.
It can’t hold you when reality finally speaks.
It teaches women to despise the very men willing to sacrifice for them… then leaves them alone to explain why fulfillment never arrived.
As a pastor, I’ve seen this story repeat itself over and over. Feminism doesn’t free women… it isolates them. It trades covenant for applause, legacy for ego, and then disappears when the bill comes due.
God’s design wasn’t oppression.
It was provision.
And too many women were lied to before they were old enough to see the cost.
That regret I saw wasn’t political.
It was spiritual.
And it was devastating.
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God commands us to mark and avoid false teachers and false doctrines, and He warns us that bad company corrupts good morals. Yet, most Christian parents spend many thousands of dollars or puts their children into deep debt by sending them to colleges/universities with false teachers/doctrines filled with bad company.