like the misgendering itself doesnt really bother me its not like the concept of being nonbinary is accepted widely here but stop associating ketangguhan with masculinity bruh some strongest women i know are pretty feminine
agak oot tp ms related i remember when an abang gojek called me a 'tomboy' (im a masc-ish enby) but then corrects himself to 'wanita tangguh' and im like ๐ซค so feminine girls are not tough?? then i just (cont)
sudah kubilang homophobia ini akarnya ya emang dari misogini juga. mereka benci feminitas. mereka benci laki-laki yang dianggap meninggalkan maskulinitas dan mendekati sesuatu yang mereka pandang โlebih rendahโ yaitu perempuan
like its so damn annoying man thats the same thing why are these people so pressed when we say try it instead of do it like im gonna do the same thing either way do they think just because they said do it ill somehow do said thing perfectly like no brother
trans woman writes about struggles with internalized misogyny and toxic masculinity before coming out, forced to watch entire fandom call her work male centered and her self insert a violent DANGEROUS MALE