Most women do not cry over the man. They are crying over themselves, the effort they put in, the hope they had, the delusion they believed, and the reminder that love has not rewarded them.
Girl to girl... normalize saying "I would rather adjust my life to your absence than adjust my boundaries to tolerate your disrespect." ...and walking away without guilt
once a person shows you that they not only lack the emotional capacity to hold space for how their words or actions affect you, but simply don’t care to, you revoke access and withdraw you energy completely.
I really lost my spark and myself a while back, so when you see me popping out, winning and happy again, it’s not to stunt on anyone, it’s an apology to myself.
If you don’t learn anything from a man learn how selfish he is when it comes to his happiness, a man will do whatever makes him happy. Don’t sacrifice you for nobody thinking they’ll love you more. In fact they’ll love you less, self-love earns respect