@harriegirlov Esto es increíblemente fuerte. Lo que escribiste es muy crudo y real. Gracias por visibilizar el femicidio y toda la injusticia que hay alrededor el hecho de que juzguen a la víctima, de que los asesinos queden impunes y de lo fácil que se descartan estos casos.
@isntzenith In some cases yea. I think insecurity can contribute to entitlement, jealousy, manipulation Etc. But I don't think insecurity automatically leads to those things, and I don't think confidence automatically prevents them. That's why I'd focus more on the behavior itself
@isntzenith There are plenty of shy/insecure people who are respectful and healthy to be around, and plenty of confident people who aren't. Shyness and insecurity aren't really reliable ways to map someone's behavior.
@isntzenith To me shyness and insecurity arent behaviors that deserve condemnation on their own. If the problem is entitlement, manipulation, resentment, or treating people badly, then criticize those behaviors directly Being shy or insecure doesn't tell you much about someones character imo
@isntzenith I get that I just think the original post goes way beyond 'don't let insecurity hold you back' and starts treating shy/insecure guys as inherently pathetic, people don't need to meet some confidence threshold before they're "allowed" to have opportunities.