Is this attitude/mood/behavior/personality/habit/temperament/thought/emotion/etc. supportive and loving of you, who you want to be, and what you want to do?
If not, see if you can let it go 😄
Gratitude after the event, knowing the outcomes, is great.
But REAL gratitude comes from faith, before the event, regardless of the outcome.
Practice that sort of gratitude and watch your life change.
I embrace extreme ownership in my relationships. I am the source of ever result in my life - good and bad. I don’t settle for 50/50 in my relationships, but 100/100 instead.