Mucha gente tiene pareja porque tiene facilidad para que le guste casi cualquiera. Y no lo digo como algo malo. Al igual que muchas de las personas que estamos solteras tampoco lo estamos por exigencia o porque seamos un problema, sino porque conectamos con pocos y sale mal.
The amount of people just not understanding he simply doesn’t want to live in a performance (which a LOT of heterosexual relationships entail) especially w a straight woman attached to gender roles. Doesn’t make his attraction to women fake.
This is what Nigerians across all levels don’t understand. We are not all going to get rich, the chance is even slighter in this climate. But we all deserve a decent life, and for that, we must have functioning systems & institutions.
my favorite kind of intimacy is when two people start using each other’s random phrases and mannerisms without even realizing it. you just wake up one day and realize you speak a little bit of their language.
Growing up sheltered is so crazy cause how am I 25 still discovering betrayal and learning signs of ulterior motives I genuinely thought we instinctively did things in love