God, sharpen my discernment without hardening my heart. Help me recognize good fruit, notice unhealthy patterns, establish wise boundaries, and remain loving without becoming naive.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i’m a bad person. I have my ways & i have my days but i’m solid and my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
I think we seriously underestimate how rare it is to find a genuine partner.Not somebody who just wants you. Somebody who considers you. Someone who communicates without games, reciprocates without being reminded, protects the connection when you’re not around, and makes you feel chosen without constantly needing to ask where you stand.Attraction is common. Attention is cheap.Finding someone with good intentions, emotional maturity, consistency, AND character? That’s the luxury!
emotional abandonment is when
they see your pain… and choose to
ignore it.
That kind of indifference doesn’t
just hurt - it traumatizes you.
It tells your nervous system that you
don’t matter.
Rihanna sharing a quote that said "the moment you start hiding your emotions to avoid arguments, you begin losing the bond that once made you feel like home" and the shit is real asf.
A relationship slowly dies out when a woman keeps forgiving from a tired heart, while the man keeps repeating the same behavior without remorse or real change!
A narcissist don’t build real love, they build backups. You can hold ’em down, stay ten toes, give ’em your all… and they’ll still move funny behind your back. They crave attention, control, and validation, but accountability...Never that. It’s always the trauma, the ex, or YOU,
I’ve tasted going back to an ex, and I’ve tasted trying to fix a relationship before it breaks off. I highly recommend focusing on your career, praying to God every day, and going to sleep before 9 PM.