there’s a point in your 30s when you realize hosting BBQs and dinner parties is the new club scene and high key better without the randoms, overpriced drinks, and terrible DJs still playing Dreams and Nightmares
When you suddenly find yourself manipulating 3 females ghosting 4 of them and leading 2 on, which is weird because there was once a lover boy that would do anything for 1 female
The right order to invest:
1) Any high-interest debt
1) 3-6 month emergency fund
2) 401K employer match
3) Roth IRA Max ($7,000)
4) 401K Max ($23,000)
5) HSA Max ($4,300)
6) Taxable brokerage
Not advice.
In life, there is no need to cry and wail about rejection. Focus on leverage....focus on what you control.
In a Dostoevsky story, a young man was troubled by rejection and an elder told him: the sun must be the sun.
The sun doesn’t beg anyone to notice it—it simply shines.