Nowellen Charles

#RealMadrid , 6th member of The Jackson 5, Descendant of House Stark preceded by Ned & Tony. Former Pirate of the Carribean #ProudlySouthAfrican 🇿🇦

[. @mnzbxz]

pessoa certa não vai cansar de tentar recomeçar com você quantas vezes for necessário.
O amor é paciente, se desistiu, não era amor.

[the_ceo @the_ceo99]

Some of y’all fumble loyal people like they grow on trees. They don’t. There’s a shortage of genuine people out here, so if someone is solid, protect that relationship instead of taking it for granted. 💯

[fifi❤️ @RefilweSeboko]

I don't know man, but it feels like there's a certain darkness around people who keep sleeping with different people. Maybe it's just me.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

The most pathetic and gut-wrenching feeling ever is when you finally muster the courage to say, “Hey, that hurt me,” or “This made me feel a certain way,” and instead of being met with understanding, grace, or even a simple I'm sorry, you get hit with deflection, manipulation, or a full-blown guilt trip. Suddenly you’re the villain. The over-thinker. The one who’s “too emotional” or “doing too much.” They twist your honesty into an attack, your vulnerability into a weakness, and somehow, by the end of the conversation, you’re the one saying sorry for even speaking up. You walk away feeling confused, heavy, and ashamed, regretting that you even opened your mouth in the first place. That’s the worst part. Not the disagreement itself, but the internal aftermath. The part where you start second-guessing your feelings like, “Maybe I was being dramatic?” or “Maybe I should’ve just let it go?” But let’s be real: you didn’t ask for a fight. You asked for respect. You were seeking resolution, not retaliation. You wanted connection, not control. It’s so damaging when someone can’t handle being held accountable, so they flip the script and make you feel crazy for simply asking to be treated with care. This is why so many people stay silent. Not because they don’t feel things but because they’ve been taught, by experience, that expressing hurt only leads to more pain. And that’s tragic. So if you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling worse than before you spoke your truth, let this be your reminder: you are not too sensitive. Your feelings are not inconvenient. And you are not wrong for wanting clarity, closure, or compassion. You just need to be in the presence of people who can handle the weight of being in a relationship with real emotions, real accountability, and real maturity.

[the_ceo @the_ceo99]

dear men, may you never cross paths with another promiscuous, lying, manipulative, damaged woman again.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Someone treating you like you don’t matter is all the closure you need. You don’t gotta keep asking what changed, trying to fix it, or waiting for them to act right. How they handled you already gave you the answer. Once somebody makes you feel unimportant, fall back and move on.

[The Driven Man @Thedrivenman]

Casual sex has a price. High-value men know it.

[AntiSocial @Anti_Social_040]

After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh?

[𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 ᥫ᭡ @nathanwontmiss]

Why do avoidant people love people who are vulnerable, intense, transparent, open, and honest? Like I don't understand it. Go date someone who likes superficiality and surface level conversations because you draining me of my energy Imao.

[B.G @ourworld_live]

THIS IS THE CLOSURE,

The lack of RESPECT was the closure.

The lack of APOLOGY was the closure.

The lack of CARE was the closure.

The lack of ACCOUNTABILITY was the closure.

The lack of HONESTY was the closure.

[Lammy @Lammyisback]

Being discarded by an avoidant isn't just heartbreak. It's psychological whiplash.
One day you're their person.
The next you're treated like a burden they couldn't wait to escape. No conversation.
No accountability. No real explanation.
Just silence. You'll spend months searching for answers because your brain can't make sense of someone who went from "I love you" to acting like you never mattered.

[🦋 @leftunsents]

i got tired of being the only one who cared.
I was always the one texting first, asking how your day was, and trying to keep the conversation going.

You’d reply when it was convenient, disappear for days, then come back like nothing happened.

I kept making excuses for you “maybe they’re just bad at texting” while I was overthinking every short reply and feeling anxious every time my messages were left on read.

I stayed patient because I actually wanted it to work. I gave you my time, my energy, and my consistency even when it started draining me. I convinced myself that if I just loved you more and complained less, you would eventually meet me halfway.

But you never did.
This is me finally stopping. I can’t keep carrying a connection by myself while you barely lift a finger. I deserve someone who actually wants to talk to me too.

[𝓴𝓻𝓪𝓽𝓸𝓼😶‍🌫️ @stlamine_]

I used to think avoidants were hard to love. Now I think they're hard to feel secure with. I spent so much time trying to decode their mixed signals that I stopped listening to my own feelings. The anxiety wasn't coming from love—it was coming from never knowing whether the person I cared about would be emotionally available tomorrow.

[love drops @lovedropx]

“The worst mistake that you can make, is to walk away from the person who actually stood there and waited for you.”
— Unknown

[🦋 @leftunsents]

i was left waiting for an explanation that never came, and i learned that sometimes closure isn’t a conversation, it’s accepting that the other person simply chose silence over honesty

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Some of y’all aren’t falling out of love… You’re just emotionally exhausted. Don’t let the version of yourself that’s running on anger, stress, lack of sleep, or hurt make permanent decisions about someone you deeply love. Heal first. Calm down first. Then decide. Because once certain words are said and certain doors are closed… You don’t always get another chance.

[The woman @Tarmeim]

Sorry, but a partner who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love them. I know you've built a future in your mind with them. I know you keep hoping they’ll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.

But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love, that's trauma bonding.

[Grace of God🫶🕊️ @KLeeeyah]

It really doesn’t cost you a cent to tell someone if you don’t like them anymore. Ghosting has never been cute and never will be. Consideration is important too.

What is a person supposed to do when yesterday you were happy to be around them, but today you don’t even want to talk to them? Just live with it? No, guys.😭

[Shubhvani @shubhvanii]

Before she leaves you, she will:

- Go cold without warning
- Cut sex first
- Get irritated by everything you do
- Stop respecting you
- Pick fights to justify it
- Compare you to other men
- Keep you around while checking out
- Test you harder because she's done
- Talk less, care less, invest zero

She doesn't leave when she's gone,
She leaves while you're still there.

If you miss it, that's on you.