@TalesOfTiny I feel that this applicable across all things, and I am guilty of it.
I actively sit in my head during conversations saying 'provide empathy not solutions' because I feel the need to solve a person's problem
@TalesOfTiny Wow, Tiny, that guy look like he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, not sure he was even carrying a weapon, just got mixed up in a sudden brawl, and you just lopped off his head like Henry the 8th