After I argue with anybody I usually replay what I said to them when I was angry, I audit my responses for the present and future
It has helped to control anger and stupidly saying crap because you're angry
Had that kind of nightmare where you immediately Wake up and refuse to sleep again
It wasn't scary or anything very civil infact. Anyway suppose it's a matter of time until it happens irl 💀
i really want to understand the thought process here, because how does that make any sense? the groom’s mother gets a free pass to use physical violence, but the person being attacked is expected to just stand there, stay quiet & accept it all in the name of respecting elders?
there is absolutely no justification for physical abuse, no matter who does it. & whoever is foolish enough to start a physical attack shouldn’t suddenly start playing the victim when the other person reacts.
what kind of useless mother in-law slaps her son’s wife over food at a wedding in the first place? what happened to speaking to her husband to address the issue, or handling the situation like an adult? putting your hands on someone because you’re angry doesn’t make you right, it just shows a complete lack of self-control & judgement.
some of you have internalised abuse so much that you've normalised violence just because the person doing it is older. respect is earned, & respect is also not a licence to abuse people.
Can’t lie to you. If you don’t make a move, you will see literal clowns race past you. Clowns.
Nothing concern life with ‘I am a smart, educated, experienced person’.
You don’t act, you remain there.
Back then in uni during one holiday my mom called me to the parlour and asked me to look at my lips in the family portrait (taken in secondary school) and look at my lips now
Me:
I was in one sometime ago and the babe told me to stop doing relationship things like cuddling or constantly touching and stuff like that. no whispering sweet nothings
The other one would have crazy coitus but didn't want to be kissed
😂😂😂 I gats say ok