Obedience

Obedience is a BDSM habit tracker app for kinksters.

[Ethereal Trix @trappedbytrix]

Reasons why @ObedienceApp is an amazing app for Dommes & subs who crave structure!

-> Dommes can upload custom tasks (or there's tasks recommended by the app itself) which can be sexual or nonsexual tasks. For instance, I have tasks for drinking water! But I also have done body writing tasks, researching new kink tasks, etc. Ideas are limitless as long as you're creative.

-> You can require photo proof for the tasks. They have to upload a photo or video for you to approve, & only when you approve do they get rewarded. You can also set the photos to be saved in the app to keep between the two of you or the app will delete the photo once approved.

-> SPEAKING OF REWARDS, when the sub completes these tasks, they earn points (amount is dictated by the Domme) which can be used to buy rewards. I consider these "long term goal" rewards because it should take time for them to build.

-> However, to condition them properly, you need to provide some "small term" rewards so their brain associates the tasks positively. I do this by assigning praise to the task when completed. You can do something as simple as a "good job" with an emoji or you can write your own custom praise, attach a voice note, or attach a photo. I like doing this, because once the task is complete & they receive a dopamine hit (my affection, praise, or lewd-ness). I like to change up the reward on occasion so that their brain never becomes used to one reward.

-> I usually have subs give me a list of rewards that they want (I assign it as a task) which can include a session with me, playing games with me, voice notes, pics, etc. But, the price of the reward is dependent on the dominant, so for a session I might require a couple hundred points which takes consistency to build. I've also changed the prices on occasion to make it more difficult.

-> On the flip side, you can also add punishments when tasks AREN'T completed.

There's also areas where Dommes & subs can include their kinks, fantasies, limits, rules for the dynamic, a page to include toys or outfits, & there's also a sister app where you can assign journal entries to one another. I like using the app when I am building a dynamic & want to condition positive behavior that serves me, but you can also use the app to condition bad behaviors that benefit you, too. Once again, the only limit is your creativity.

There's a free version of the app, but honestly, I recommend buying the subscription (it's well worth the money in my opinion). & it's not that expensive.

[Techdom Subbie @TinySub101]

@ObedienceApp everyone needs to check this app out, great for setting tasks

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The Obedient Season is coming again this June! Issue 2's theme: Craving. We're adding a Community Voices section - real submissions from real kinksters.
Participate by responding to: "What are you craving in your dynamic right now?"
Submit before May 8th: https://t.co/zXOVXzdFUl

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Ever feel like your dynamic only exists on weekends? Try our 75 Days of Obedience Challenge. Make your kink richer by making it your rhythm. #kink https://t.co/Ih1Tvsz4i2

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Daily rituals. @Lovense toys. Obedience. A 75-day challenge to deepen your dynamic—plus a giveaway to make your whole body buzz. Sign up. Start slow. Stay kinky. Learn more: https://t.co/Ih1Tvsz4i2

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You’re not a bad Dom for forgetting a rule. You’re not a bad sub for breaking one. You’re both just learning. Start again tomorrow. Together. #kink

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Beginner tip: Kink isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present. Show up. Speak honestly. Try again tomorrow. That’s how consistency creates closeness. 🖤 #kink

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What if your kink habits felt as natural as brushing your teeth? Not just hot scenes—daily acts of care, discipline, obedience, devotion. You don’t need more willpower. You need a rhythm. Practice for 75 Days with Obedience: https://t.co/Ih1Tvsywsu #kink #75hardchallenge

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Kink isn’t chaos. It can be structure. Rhythm. Routine. That’s what the 75 Days of Obedience challenge is about: showing up for your dynamic, one day at a time. We start on September 3rd. You in? Sign up here: https://t.co/Ih1Tvsywsu #kink #powerexchange

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We are ready for the hoa hoa hoa season, hbu?

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Read the full text here: https://t.co/r45FpFwOWI

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Reflection prompt for today: What part of me do I want to temporarily give up during CNC? (e.g. control, speech, resistance, choice, identity) #kink

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Read the full article here: https://t.co/Q4OkV8AY8J #cnc #kink

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🗣️ You’ll get better at asking for exactly how you want to be ruined. You’ll stop being shy about it. Because CNC makes you own your desire — even when it scares you. #consent #kink

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Now tell us: What’s the one part of CNC that scares you in a good way?

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So you’re into CNC? Let’s make sure it’s not just a vibe, but a system. 🧵 #cnc #consent #kink

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Bottom line? CNC isn’t edgy because it’s violent. It’s edgy because it messes with trust, identity, fear, and love. Do it with people who can carry that. 🖤