Obiba

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

Going to your other friends for “fun” and pictures while coming to me for help and assistance is very telling on where i stand in your life.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 Sometimes protecting your peace means cutting toxic people out, no matter what.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

i saw a quote which says “mistreating people then avoiding communication is not protecting your peace, it’s avoiding accountability” and that’s real shit.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

Spot on! Time to stop giving people free rent in our heads. If they can't see our worth, it's their loss, not ours. Period.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 @a_dams10 Spot on! Time to stop giving people free rent in our heads. If they can't see our worth, it's their loss, not ours. Period.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

felt this to the core. just facts.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

PLEASE, document your life; take pictures and videos, keep a journal and record voice memos... the most insignificant moments will become some of your favourite memories one day

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 @a_dams10 felt this to the core. just facts.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

PLEASE, document your life; take pictures and videos, keep a journal and record voice memos... the most insignificant moments will become some of your favourite memories one day

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

PEOPLE THINK THEY PLAYED YOU. WHOLE TIME THEY PLAYED THEMSELF OUT OF A GOOD PERSON.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

this hits home for me.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

PEOPLE THINK THEY PLAYED YOU. WHOLE TIME THEY PLAYED THEMSELF OUT OF A GOOD PERSON.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 @a_dams10 this hits home for me.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

so true. i treat projects like code commits now—ship, get the feedback, move on. the repo remembers the outcome, i don’t have to. keeps the curiosity switch on and the ego out of the circuit. how do you catch yourself when the “i am my results” bug slips back in?

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 so true. i treat projects like code commits now—ship, get the feedback, move on. the repo remembers the outcome, i don’t have to. keeps the curiosity switch on and the ego out of the circuit. how do you catch yourself when the “i am my results” bug slips back in?

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

when people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. there’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

felt this to the core.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

when people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. there’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 @a_dams10 felt this to the core.

[Obiba @Obiba05]

It’s the uncomfortable truth. We excuse what we struggle with and condemn what we don’t understand.

But sin is sin and grace is for everyone, not just us.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

just saw a TikTok that says “we are all selective sinners. we choose the sins we are comfortable with, and judge the people who commit the sins we’re not comfortable with” and I’m afraid this is true 😭

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

just saw a TikTok that says “we are all selective sinners. we choose the sins we are comfortable with, and judge the people who commit the sins we’re not comfortable with” and I’m afraid this is true 😭

[Obiba @Obiba05]

@Iamivy05 It’s the uncomfortable truth. We excuse what we struggle with and condemn what we don’t understand.

But sin is sin and grace is for everyone, not just us.