Peter Obi is 65 today.
Peter Obi is a businessman and politician who served as the Governor of Anambra State from 2006 to 2014. Born 65 years ago today in Onitsha.
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex.
They fvck who they want & marry who they can.
Men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
They fvck who they can & marry who they want.
Commitment is a weapon to men as sex is to women.
Sex is everywhere. Commitment is rare.
Use yours wisely.
A man is built to provide & provision isn't only financial.
He feeds, he fucks, finances, and protects his woman as long as the situation allows him to.
None of which are lite responsibilities.
Imagine begging a woman to continue doing all this for her despite her bad behavior and you expect her to respect and not sh!t on you.
"A man who knows his worth will not tolerate half of the things I do to this guy, yet he still begs me to stay. He must be a low-life who deserves no respect and very little of my cookie"
This is her rationale while she gives you terms and conditions and continues to offer it on a platter to a brother who tears it to pieces every chance he gets without doing half as much as you do, if he does anything at all except giving less fvck about her than you.
And thus, gets to fuck her more than you do.
I was talking to a girl the other day, she was telling me how she sometimes feel sorry for her boyfriend because he's a nice guy.
"Some of the things I do, some other guys may not tolerate it, but he's not like that" She said.
You see, women are not as stupid as you think they are.
They know when they are on a leash and they know when they are off it and a woman who has been given the impression that you can't do without her will show you the full wrath of her ruthlessness.
Ironically, the majority of men have lost their grips and don't even know they are supposed to have a grip in the first place.
Your ignorance as a man is a woman's greatest power over you, just like the devil.
When it comes to matters of love and intimacy, they are wiser and more cunning, than you can possibly imagine.
When @Bqmbulu said,
"Women act like romantics but are realists in matters of love.
Men act like realists but are romantic in matters of love"
I felt that.
A woman knows when she's being disrespectful and when you need to let her go.
She's not stupid, she's aware of her action and the reason she'll play you for a fool is because you've decided to be blind to it and she'll punish you for it through her endless torment and actions.
But because you're 'in love' you continue to tolerate her in the hopes that she would change.
Most times, that's never the case, and if you're like most men who learn when it's too late or never learn at all.
You forgive her for the most grievous things that shouldn't be forgiven.
She knows that too.
You'll experience the full wrath of a woman's ruthlessness for your weakness because you failed to mold her to her best self or let her go if she's beyond redemption.
"In the hands of a weak and effeminate man, a good woman will eventually go bad"
While that's true, some women are damaged beyond redemption, no matter how masculine or strong a man you may be, there's no saving these ones.
You let them go.
The real test of your masculinity is your ability to tell a good woman from a bad one so you can choose wisely and know who's worth leading, who's for fun and those who don't make the list.
A strong and masculine man doesn't and will not fvck anything in skirt just because he can.
He sets standards.
Why do you think everyone is always telling men to learn game and don't tell women the same thing?
It's cos women are born with it just like their value.
Men are meant to create their value and learn the game over time.
That's why nature is cruel to a man with challenges and obstacles to shape him into the man he's meant to be.
The forge of man is in his struggles and that includes women and how much he's able to understand their nature like everything else.
Life's a complete package, wherever you lack will be evident for all to see.
Those who failed to learn the basics of what it should be are the lessons we are learning from today.
And if you fail to learn today, you'll become the lesson of tomorrow.
There are no exceptions.
We made this short documentary telling the story of how our stars Egejurum Onyedikachi, Onwubiko Chimdiebube, and Don Anele Munachimso went from competing in and winning the South East Maths Olympiad to bringing home gold medals at the International STEM Olympiad in Rome last week.
It's such a beautiful and inspiring story to watch.
Seeing students from the South East achieve this on the international stage reminds us of what is possible when young people are given the right opportunities.
We are changing the story of education in the South East and Nigeria, and this is just the beginning.
Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
End.
Kite flying. A lost art.
We didn't need aviation license or airspace clearance.
Dusty feet, saggy pants, shirtless with palmoil stained lips, we'd run into sunsets.
Now youngins are stuck behind screens with child obesity.
Life used to be good, man.
It took me a long time but I eventually learnt.
A woman will do everything to you but a woman will never lie to you.
You are the one who is not listening.
If she's not telling you with words, she's telling you with actions.
If you ignore signs, you will see wonders.
Those things your father couldn't achieve during his time...try as much as possible to get them done...
He couldn't build a house in the village...Build it.
He couldn't drive a car... kindly change the story.