If y’all haven’t checked it out yet my next entry to “V-Ludes” is out on all platform go ahead and run them plays up‼️💯
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i don't want a woman to ever settle for me. go find your dream man, and if you can't find him, don't come trying to use me in the process.
i want mine clingy, reassuring, nasty, unapproachable, God fearing & eyes on only me.
Best advice I can give anybody right now is to make sure you got your own and always do what's best for you. This a cold world we living in. Families ain't family no more and friends ain't friends. Everybody scream real until it's actually time to show it. So get your own and pray you never get in the position to where you have to depend on nobody. People will fail you over and over but your faith will get you there everytime.
The most GANGSTA thing you can do is get mad at yourself for wasting your potential and then rebuild your entire life from that anger. Don't ever settle. You're made for more.
People are allowed to delete you off social media, delete your number, and just stop hanging with you. They don't owe you an explanation. If they don't like your energy anymore, you're toxic to them now, or you're affecting their mental health. They're allowed to cut you off. Period
accountability is so important to me. nobody is perfect, but don’t try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your action lit the match.
People didn’t love me for me… they loved how I showed up for them. My loyalty. My support. The way I came through when no one else did. I stayed solid because I knew what it felt like to need someone and have no one. But loving the wrong people changes you. It drains you. It makes you question the love you give. And eventually, it makes you colder not because you want to be, but because you’re tired of being real to people who never matched it.
If you want to maintain a healthy relationship in your life you have to learn to reconcile the right way. when you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about apologize to them AND address the ISSUE. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is not an apology. Calling them and pretending like nothing happened is not an apology. Being nice to them hoping they will forget about the mistreatment is not an apology. Until you open your mouth and address the issue, the problem will still exist.
pushing someone to their breaking point and then shaming them when they break is a form of abuse.. pushing, provoking, harming them and flip the blame so you look like the victim..it’s manipulation
For a relationship to really work, you gotta understand it’s two different people trying to build one future. Y’all didn’t grow up the same, don’t carry the same baggage, and you not always gonna see things eye to eye. That’s normal. What matters is how you handle it. Knowing how to talk without it turning into a blow up. Listening even when you irritated. Fixing the issue instead of keeping score. You can’t build nothing real if every disagreement turn into distance. It take maturity to grow together and not let emotions ruin what you’re trying to build.