I want black ppl to educate themselves more on black history and systemic racism. Many of you are very confused and uneducated. The comment sections reflect the ignorance.
- I will NOT date a man with a child
- I will NOT give a man a baby without being married first
- I will NOT marry someone I have to teach that house work are shared jobs, I.e someone who thinks cleaning, cooking, looking after the kids etc, is up to the woman.
- No mommy boys
I saw a TikTok where a woman said, if you’re a giver, you need to find another giver to love. You’ll always be happier with someone like you. And damn… if that ain’t the truth. Bc givers don’t just love, we pour. We stretch, we sacrifice, we make space where there is none.
until you date a generous man (i didn’t say rich), you’ll understand that men love to provide for their women. they don’t wait to be asked, they genuinely find joy in doing it, they take initiative, they know your favorites and will order them.
30’s is your prime… you look better, make more money, more accomplishments under your belt, wiser, dress better…. I think everything is just better lol
According to psychology, when someone truly loves you, their biggest fear isn't losing you - it's hurting you. But when someone only loves the way you make them feel, their biggest fear is losing access to you.
Know the difference.