โOne of you will betray me todayโ
I didn't belive until someone unfollowed me ๐ญ
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"Your marriage is already gone"
Dave gives a brutal response to a caller who asked how to stop his wife's spending spree.
Adam: My wife signed up for a $10,000 elective surgery. When I questioned the timing, she told me, "Either we fund it, or I'm getting my own credit card and doing it myself." Every time I bring up finances, she says I'm obsessed. We have four young kids, we spend more than we make, and she completely stonewalls me. I'm worried if I push too hard, I'll ruin the marriage.
โDave: Your marriage is already gone.
โAdam: I feel like I'm enabling a drunk by letting her spend like this.
โDave: No, you didn't hear me. Your marriage is already gone.
โAdam: But she does give signs that she wants to make it work. She just says she's not ready to talk about it right now.
โDave: No, she doesn't. People who do and say the things she's doing have no desire for this marriage to continue.
When she says, "If you don't pay for this $10,000, I'm putting it on a credit card. Screw you, you don't have a vote" you do not have a marriage anymore.
โIf I were in your shoes, I would tell her, "I'm going to see a marriage counselor. Either you come with me so we can learn to get on the same page like grown-ups, or the counselor is going to instruct me on how to end this marriage."