Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
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All the records broken by Lionel Messi today:
Most FIFA World Cup finals goals by a football (soccer) player - 18
Most FIFA World Cup matches played in by an individual - 28
Most matches won by a player at the football (soccer) FIFA World Cup - 18
Most minutes played in the football (soccer) FIFA World Cup - 2,489
We are witnessing history.
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Stage Three of Infidelity: The False Turnaround
Remember, Stage Two is a turning point that determines your marriage’s future.
If Stage Two runs its normal course, usually after about three months, the cheater’s attitude will take a major shift. They’ll stop criticizing you, focusing on their own things, and not letting you interfere. But gradually, they’ll start communicating again, even sharing their inner thoughts.
At first glance, it might seem like they’re coming back around, but don’t celebrate too soon — this is a clear characteristic of Stage Three.
In Stage Three, cheaters might even initiate heart-to-heart talks with you, sometimes even in tears, asking you to understand and accept their situation.
Remember, at this point, nothing you say matters — saying less is better. Whether you agree or not, they’ll act completely justified, even communicating with their lover right in front of you, treating you like you’re invisible.
Stage Two of Infidelity: The Escalation
When cheaters use financial reasons, life problems, or other issues as excuses for their cheating, they might struggle internally, but their behavior becomes increasingly unreasonable.
If you don’t make a big deal about it, the marriage might survive for a while. But if you do confront them, they’ll find every way possible to criticize you, constantly attacking your weak spots! Even if you let things slide, they’ll gradually start finding fault with everything you do. At this stage, cheaters become extremely defensive, and their words turn vicious. You generally can’t reason with them!
It is your fault for finding out the cheater cheated. Why can't you choose to remain ignorant? Must you find out? Must you investigate? What are you solving for? What you are looking for, you have found!
I have done what I did. You either accept it and move on or let me go. Stop referring to it. Didn't you say you forgave me? Why are you throwing it in my face?
Stage One of Infidelity: The Blame Game
I’ve discovered that when eighty percent of affairs are discovered, the cheating partner almost always finds excuses for themselves. They twist the truth, repeatedly finding fault with their innocent partner, pushing all the blame onto the person who did nothing wrong. Their common excuses are: you’re not capable enough, you don’t understand romance, you don’t care about me, you don’t earn enough money, so-and-so is more considerate than you! Basically, in the cheater’s mind, even if I’m sleeping with someone else, it’s still your fault — who told you to be so inadequate!
purpose God intended for you when He made you. Weakness in prayer translates into weakness in destiny, but consistent prayers open up divine direction, breakthrough and fulfillment.
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THE BREATH OF DESTINY
Prayer is not just an activity performed out of religious obligation; rather, it is the breath of destiny. Praying with all your heart and soul opens up heaven’s strength for unseen wars, heavenly wisdom for unknown ways, and grace for fulfilling the
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@official_Gegeh Those people who're disagreeing with this quote don't notice the word *EVER*.
Never disagree with what you don't fully understand its real meaning.
If she ALWAYS asks for money, it's true that she doesn't like you, but only loves your pocket.
It's simple as ABC.
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@official_Gegeh Those people who're disagreeing with this quote don't notice the word *EVER*.
Never disagree with what you don't fully understand its real meaning.
If she ALWAYS asks for money, it's true that she doesn't like you, but only loves your pocket.
It's simple as ABC.
#OOcares
@official_Gegeh Many people spend years expecting opportunities, support, or perfect conditions. But real progress usually starts when you accept that your life is ultimately your responsibility.
@jon_d_doe This tweet speaks a lot.
"Marrying a right partner is a determinant of one's happiness and fulfilment in marriage."
God please help me where I have missed it, and retrace my steps to make right choice this time.