A man who sleeps around with women (probably) is misogynistic and sexist because he views women he sleeps with as conquests and not people.
We saw him rape Matipa and Lindani. We saw him brag about how Joyce will never leave even when he continues to hurt her.
This is patriarchal socialisation in full force. A man who made it out the hood by becoming the very thing that undermined his existence (a lack of capital that wouldn’t have granted him what he views as access to women).
He is not gay, not secretly gay. He is a result of being socialised under the patriarchy. Men are belligerent because they are patriarchal, it isn’t inherent, nor does it point to a possibility of him being homosexual.
#ThePolygamist
Girls who grew up in my street ko Birch Acres that I always played jumprope (skipping) le umgusha, who defended me from homophobes, young as we all were, are now celebrating my transness. And honestly? This is so much more than what I have asked for. What a blessing. They saw who I was before I could.
Presh wakes up at 4 am to prepare 16 kids for school (none of the kids are hers or Rowie’s) and you guys want to convince us that she is not under a spell ? Please get that poor girl out of Venda man . Enough
And to conclude, no I am not xenophobic or afrophobic. Search through my tweets and there is a slew of them condemning xenophobia. I just won’t stand for rewriting history. Criticise South Africa, but don’t lie and discredit the progress made post-apartheid and the history.