It’s hard not knowing who you truly are cuz you’ve been mending yourself to make others more comfortable. I’m a mirror for everyone else….but can’t see myself.
I feel like weaponized incompetence is killing Black women. Seeing it for my own eyes has set the standard for me in my own relationship. I will not live a stressed life because you know I got it. I actually don’t got it and never will.
My mother “never ever in your life build a man. Focus on building yourself and growing you. If you want to be with a man let him already come built. You will waste your life and time pouring into a man’s growth while neglecting your own and there will be no reward.”