We have normalised men cheating so much that someone can post a story like this and the comments will still somehow find a way to castigate the woman involved.
Your unfortunate friend came to the UK married, started dating a white woman, allowed that person help with his school fees and they broke up, brought his family over, then instead of facing his marriage and his responsibilities, he moved on to another woman and suddenly remembered “nobody should be paying another person’s school fees, Nigerian women are entitled.”
Your friend is an embarrassment, a cheat, a home destroyer, an entitled he-goat, and he will eventually see what he is looking for.
There are too many unfortunate people around you. Maybe it is time to change your circle.
Having friends who are mindful of salah when you’re out is a real blessing.
“Let’s go after Asr”
“Let’s do it before Dhuhr”
“Maghrib soon, let’s head home”
May Allah surround us with people like this 🥹
My friend asked me to lend her 10k. I tried to transfer from my bank app but it kept reversing. Because I was busy, I gave her my ATM to go withdraw at a POS across the street...
Next thing I received a debit alert of 30k...
She came back smiling and said "babe you get money ooooo.... Abeg na 30k I withdraw.... That's the actual amount I need... I go pay you"
I was infuriated and asked her why she checked my account balance and even withdrew more than she asked for... We had an argument and next thing she threw the entire money on my table and left....
Please did I do anything wrong questioning why she checked my account balance and took more than she asked for???
They are conditioned to expect asshole behaviour from men and they will excuse it as "Firm Leadership". From women they expect the same leadership style they got from their Grade 8 Arts And Culture Teacher.
studies show that r@pe cases have dropped significantly in countries where they have given students “consent classes” so in conclusion men are like dogs, you have to train them young to have basic human decency because most of them lack common sense
To stop ants coming in to your house leave a saucer of milk outside. The adult ants drink it & it has an effect on ant reproduction. The young are born without toes so they can't climb in to your
cavity walls.
This effect is called lack toes in toddler ants.
the worst christians don't represent christianity and shouldn't
the worst jews don't represent judaism and shouldn't
but in many people's minds, the worst muslims represents Islam???
Sometimes male anger at ‘women getting special treatment’ reminds me of a gorilla experiment. One gorilla gets a banana every hour. The females next to him get one every four hours. Then someone decides to be ‘fairer’ and gives the females a banana every two hours instead. The original gorilla? He flips out. He’s still getting his banana every hour, but it feels like a loss because his advantage shrank.
That’s how a lot of men react to basic fairness for women: not as justice, but as theft.
If you think Ochanya cannot get justice in Nigeria look up #JusticeForKhloe
A 4 year old girl who was raped by their cook and the father got SAN to defend the cook. The mother was thrown out for fighting for her daughter. Nigerians rallied round. Nigerians were at the court many times protesting and the rapist was sentenced to jail!
Justice is possible. We just have to ask for it loudly without stopping