Can’t lie to you. If you don’t make a move, you will see literal clowns race past you. Clowns.
Nothing concern life with ‘I am a smart, educated, experienced person’.
You don’t act, you remain there.
Bro if she cared :
- She wouldn't block you.
- She wouldn't have left.
- She would wanna fix things.
- She wouldn't have moved on so fast.
Move on bro.
Men don’t usually “blow up” a relationship overnight. More often, things fade slowly. You stop sharing what’s on your mind. You shut down in arguments. You keep the peace by staying silent. You’re in the same room but living in a different world.
It looks like:
Answering “fine” when asked how you’re doing
Avoiding conflict by going quiet
Choosing work, the gym, or your phone over connection
Feeling uncomfortable expressing emotions
Keeping your partner at arm’s length, even though you love her
This isn’t about not caring. It’s about not showing up emotionally.
Usually—outside Nigeria, at least—people don’t just hit big money. They grow into it. Along the way, they become part of communities, build relationships, and acquire forms of social capital that secure them in many respects.
This is why I don’t pay much attention to advice that says, “Here’s what to do with a million dollars.” I’m not going to wake up with a million dollars. I’m going to make a few thousand, then tens of thousands, then hundreds of thousands, and eventually a million.
And in the course of that process, I’ll encounter circumstances that sharpen my judgment and develop my ability to make informed decisions.
A lady left her struggling boyfriend for a rich man. Ten years later the lady is still happily married to her rich husband, and Ex boyfriend is still hustling. Life is not Nollywood movie just live your life
Fun fact:
If Peter Obi makes sense to you, Tinubu will never make sense to you.
If Tinubu makes sense to you, Peter Obi cannot make sense to you.
These gentlemen operate on totally different IQ levels. If after watching Tinubu's outing yesterday, you still find it hard to understand him and you are clapping for "Mr I will run for a single term to bring stability", it speaks more about your IQ than anything else.
I have always said that savings will come before investing. And that to get to the point where investing will yield more result, you have to go through every stages of savings.
- Saving for Emergency Fund
- Saving for Personal Development
- Saving to Start & Grow a Cash Generating Business
After which, you move to investing cashflow in a portfolio of investment.
You cannot save what you need to survive.
Can we actually put kids in slum directly on govt if a bus driver has 22 kids and yet spends all his daily revenue on beer and peppersoup? A large number of young girls who should be the Uni today are on the roadside. This dysfunction begins with the collapse of the family unit.
The just inaugurated University of Lagos Geosciences Centre of Excellence is a world‑class facility set to redefine geoscience education, research and in‑country capability in Nigeria.
Purpose‑built and thoughtfully designed to align with the site’s natural topography, the Geosciences Centre of Excellence is a five‑level, state‑of‑the‑art facility that brings world‑class learning and research capabilities together under one roof.
Key Building Features include:
- A 250‑seat auditorium for lectures, events and academic engagements
- Geoscience and instrumentation laboratories, a rock preparation workshop, and collaborative spaces for students, lecturers and researchers
- Laboratories for hydrogeology, mineralogy, environmental geology, sedimentary and paleoenvironmental sciences, alongside lecture rooms and offices
- Facilities for advanced study and research, including a modern library, seismic interpretation room and seminar rooms
- A digital museum
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If you are building others and giving them platforms, don’t forget to also build yourself, and possibly above them. See people like Rauf Aregbesola and PYO, I can’t understand them and their principles about life.