A major cheat code in life: Being a pleasure to deal with. Kind when others aren’t. Calm when things go sideways. Reliable under pressure. Intelligence alone is overrated. Be someone who lightens the load for folks around them. People value people who make their lives easier.
The worst is if I am the one that introduced two of you so we can be a trio only for me to get kicked out…this thing hurts a whole lot especially if you loved the two women wholeheartedly and was ready to build your world around their friendship.
The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse.
Intentionally punishing someone with removal of love is a coping mechanism of emotionally immature people.
It says: when you do something I don't like, I deny your very existence.