Living Beyond Bullies

I am an ordinary man who endured childhood bullying to becoming a male rape survivor. The revised edition of my book of survival is available on Amazon.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Those who count themselves as Children of God should count everyone we meet as if this person is a brother or sister in our first meeting.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Be joyful for blessings reflected on you knowing we do not work to bless others on a condition of a reward but are humble if receiving it.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Give yourself to those around you as a blessing in seeing those in need with those living in bounty who may reflect your love back on you.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Recognize blessings you have around you, from the family you were born into by the kinship of blood to those with you forged by the spirit.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

There is a great connection for people who have familiar life experiences in which there is no requirement to enter their family membership.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Not all family bonds are one through the movement of one’s birth, as one has no control over the bonds of blood, but social contracts are.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Be consistent, forthright, and genuine with a clockwork movement of humanity everyone can see as a forecast for life and support of others.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Be a gentle breeze in the lives of others with a kindness when they do not expect it without expectation of a reciprocal response or reward.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Take everyday like weather arriving on its own timetable, cannot be rewritten or ignored where no matter how shouty we are, will continue.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Life as with weather, we look at experiences with it to indicate possible outcomes, view patterns, we can only brace for events in the now.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

The thing about weather forecasts is that they are not reported as weather expectations, as they are going to do what they are going to do.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Show love to everyone, as if it is their last day, you have honored them in life; whereby if it is your last, you have given them a memory.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Be a blessing to everyone you meet, as if it was going to be the last time you may speak to them, as we never know who is on their last day.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Live, as if you had no more days to squander with today as your last best effort for a memorable day where you might not have a tomorrow.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Recognize the world is not there to make life comfortable nor does it have a responsibility to be a guide, as it is simply there to exist.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Life is not a schedule, which is why it can be so hard to find a time and place to decompress from all the inputs we take-in on daily basis.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

No matter how short or seemingly insufficient, it is always important to break away from the distractive voices to find clarity and composure.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

We live in a very loud world where everyone appears to be shouty, and finding a quiet moment for you to take a breath and relax can be few.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Remember, everyone has a collection of values and principle on which to proclaim in the public square, even when they conflict with yours.

[Living Beyond Bullies @OrdinaryHardt]

Recognize as you stand in the public square holding to your principles, you do not infringe on others whose principles conflict with yours.