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[RED Head @OritaPupa]

1. How To Properly DATE Naija Babes

In light of the dates discourse that has littered this space since yesterday, my hand is inclined to write this.

If you want to know how to properly take Naija babes on dates that wouldn't lead to you bitching and moaning afterward, read:🧵👇🏾

[KHAN'✨ @khanofkhans11_]

Son of a wealthy family crashing out cos of billing from a woman but boys with small funds want to kill us with “just guide” 😂

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

@socetyhatesjay U don wake up now or you still dey dream??

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

@realyobarnub She's used to the mumu men who indulge in such conversations. That's why She's surprised by this reaction.

It's not even bad to have an idea of what your potential spouse is earning. But asking about that on the (first) date? That's an alatenuje right there.

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

Low-self-esteem-ass-nigga spotted 👇🏾

[. @fcbdennis_1]

e get some kind girls way you go see you go just accept for your mind say you no fit pull this kind girl.. omo

[Neo Officiall @neo_officialll]

Children desperately need their fathers.

Women do not have what it takes to raise children, especially male children.

[Kagan @KaganTech]

There are wayyyyy too many beautiful women in the world for you to be fooling yourself over a poor Nigerian girl.

Gentlemen, please don't be stupid.

[Killa 🌺 @KillaKreww]

Ochocinco explains to Andrew Schulz why he REFUSES to waste his money, saying 87% of athletes go BROKE spending on PRIVATE JETS and trying to IMPRESS women who don’t even have money, while revealing he SAVED 80% of the $48 MILLION he earned during his NFL career 😲💰

“So what am I doing? Trying to show you how rich I am… popping bottles, $30,000, $40,000, and she has on $100 heels and a $5 dress. What are we doing?” 💀

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

@yaygha How about having a defined approach/basis to these things? Cos I don't see a difference between a man getting a woman an iphone 18 and the one who's 'breadcrumbing' her with a 14 if both are doing it just because they're dating her.

[Crazy Kennar @crazy_kennar]

WHAT THEY TOOK,REBRANDED AND SOLD BACK😂😂😂😂

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

@Afeniforo_ 😂

[Precious Stone @ghostedit247]

Try trek pass amino Kano crescent 🌙 Wuse 2, Abuja just around that beer 🍺 barn from 9pm….. the ones wey get all this shape pass her come even fine pass her Dey charge 50k for short time for there ……. Woman na achievement wey person dey bag ?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣una really dey crase for this X..

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

Men will encourage nonsense and still turn around to complain about the same nonsense

[Ace Bissong ♠️ @wisingman]

No man should be demanding submission in 2026. If it doesn’t come organically leave her for weak men whom she can disrespect.

[Mike @osemike300]

No lies the bad once have corrupted the dating pool it's just a shame now most men of this era are skeptical of Nigerian girls

[RED Head @OritaPupa]

If you haven't done so, combine reading the book mentioned below with "Anatomy of Female Power" by Chinweizu.

(Warning: unless you're not of sound mind, you won't remain the same man after)

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

The manipulated man by esther collar. It’s a bit long. lol.

MEN ARE NOT THE OPPRESSORS. MEN ARE THE ONES BEING EXPLOITED.

Esther Vilar exposed this in 1971 and they wanted her dead for it. A woman attacked her on live TV. That's how dangerous the truth was.

Here is her thesis, without the sugar coating:

A man is born with one purpose — to serve.

He is trained from childhood. Be strong. Don't cry. Work hard. Make money. Protect her. Provide for her. Die for her. If you do all of that, you might be called a "real man." If you don't, you are nothing. A failure. A bum. Not a man at all.

He spends 40 years breaking his back. In construction, in mines, on oil rigs, in wars. He comes home broken, with a paycheck that is never his. It goes to her house. Her kids. Her lifestyle. Her security.

And she has the audacity to call him her oppressor.

Think about it. What oppressor works 12 hours a day so the oppressed can stay home? What oppressor is told to go down with the ship while the oppressed gets the lifeboat? What oppressor pays for a house he doesn't own, for kids that will be taken from him, for a lifestyle that will be used as evidence that he was "controlling" her?

Vilar said women have 3 weapons and they never fail:

*1. PRAISE:* "You're such a good provider, honey." Translation: Keep working, slave.

*2. PRESSURE:* Nagging, guilt, tears, silent treatment until he obeys.

*3. WITHHOLDING:* Intimacy becomes a transaction. He gets it when he behaves. He loses it when he doesn't. Like training a dog.

She doesn't want equality. Equality would mean she carries the bricks. She works the sewers. She dies in the wars. She asks you out. She pays for the date. She splits rent 50/50 without complaint.

She doesn't want that. No woman ever wanted that.

What she wants is a comfortable master. A man strong enough to provide, dumb enough to believe he is in charge. A man who pays for her freedom while calling himself free.

Love? Marriage? Vilar said those were invented by women to lock down a provider for life. He thinks he chose her. No. She chose him. She audited his future income and gave him permission to serve her.

The system is rigged. He loses his kids in court and pays her to raise them. He loses his house and pays her to live in it. He loses his health and is told to "man up." And if he complains, he is called toxic, weak, insecure.

The most exploited animal on this planet is the man who believes his worth is measured by how much he can provide for a woman who secretly despises him.

Vilar's solution was brutal and true:

The only free man is the man who no longer seeks female validation.

The moment you stop needing her praise, her approval, her body you become ungovernable. You work for yourself. You live for yourself. You keep what is yours.

Until then, you are not a man. You are a resource. A utility. A wallet with a pulse.

*MEN WERE NEVER THE OPPRESSORS. MEN ARE THE EXPLOITED CLASS.*

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

The manipulated man by esther collar. It’s a bit long. lol.

MEN ARE NOT THE OPPRESSORS. MEN ARE THE ONES BEING EXPLOITED.

Esther Vilar exposed this in 1971 and they wanted her dead for it. A woman attacked her on live TV. That's how dangerous the truth was.

Here is her thesis, without the sugar coating:

A man is born with one purpose — to serve.

He is trained from childhood. Be strong. Don't cry. Work hard. Make money. Protect her. Provide for her. Die for her. If you do all of that, you might be called a "real man." If you don't, you are nothing. A failure. A bum. Not a man at all.

He spends 40 years breaking his back. In construction, in mines, on oil rigs, in wars. He comes home broken, with a paycheck that is never his. It goes to her house. Her kids. Her lifestyle. Her security.

And she has the audacity to call him her oppressor.

Think about it. What oppressor works 12 hours a day so the oppressed can stay home? What oppressor is told to go down with the ship while the oppressed gets the lifeboat? What oppressor pays for a house he doesn't own, for kids that will be taken from him, for a lifestyle that will be used as evidence that he was "controlling" her?

Vilar said women have 3 weapons and they never fail:

*1. PRAISE:* "You're such a good provider, honey." Translation: Keep working, slave.

*2. PRESSURE:* Nagging, guilt, tears, silent treatment until he obeys.

*3. WITHHOLDING:* Intimacy becomes a transaction. He gets it when he behaves. He loses it when he doesn't. Like training a dog.

She doesn't want equality. Equality would mean she carries the bricks. She works the sewers. She dies in the wars. She asks you out. She pays for the date. She splits rent 50/50 without complaint.

She doesn't want that. No woman ever wanted that.

What she wants is a comfortable master. A man strong enough to provide, dumb enough to believe he is in charge. A man who pays for her freedom while calling himself free.

Love? Marriage? Vilar said those were invented by women to lock down a provider for life. He thinks he chose her. No. She chose him. She audited his future income and gave him permission to serve her.

The system is rigged. He loses his kids in court and pays her to raise them. He loses his house and pays her to live in it. He loses his health and is told to "man up." And if he complains, he is called toxic, weak, insecure.

The most exploited animal on this planet is the man who believes his worth is measured by how much he can provide for a woman who secretly despises him.

Vilar's solution was brutal and true:

The only free man is the man who no longer seeks female validation.

The moment you stop needing her praise, her approval, her body you become ungovernable. You work for yourself. You live for yourself. You keep what is yours.

Until then, you are not a man. You are a resource. A utility. A wallet with a pulse.

*MEN WERE NEVER THE OPPRESSORS. MEN ARE THE EXPLOITED CLASS.*

[Big Willy @bigwillySZN]

It's not a pandemic. We can get laid without commitment, cook better than most women or just use ubereats, clean our own homes or higher a helper and come back to peace and quiet. What exactly is a wife going to add?

[Devon Eriksen @Devon_Eriksen_]

I didn't go to college until I was 30. This gave me a chance to see it with the perspective of an adult.

One lecture in Industrial Psychology, in particular, I will never forget.

The professor spoke about how an effective job description focused on concretely measurable tasks, not vague instructions, or characteristics.

For example, "maintain an 85% or greater average on customer feedback surveys", instead of "be cheerful and upbeat", or even "interact positively with customers".

This means that goals are clear, and performance is measurable. A job is to do something, not be something.

Once some of the students had wrapped their minds around this concept, the professor decided to do a class exercise.

He asked the female students to come up with a job description for "husband". At first, this went fine. The girls noodled around a bit with things they wanted their husbands to be (tall, etc), but he was able to gradually steer them towards describing what they wanted in terms of actions.

But then he asked the male students to define a wife in the same way.

And all the girls became upset. Some of them had full-on meltdowns.

Every single thing that a male student wanted, or expected, from his hypothetical future wife was sexist, oppressive, old-fashioned, misogynistic, patriarchal, etc.

They were literally screaming. Some of them in tears.

And I realized something pretty quickly. It wasn't the actual, concrete responsibilities of the female role that they objected to.

It was the idea of there being a female role at all, with any attached responsibilities.

These women didn't want to be wives. They wanted to be pets.

What's a pet? Well a pet is not a wife, or a friend. A pet is a creature of instinct, which you bring into your home because you like how it naturally behaves.

You get a cat because you want to behave like a cat, and do things a cat naturally does, like play with string, and purr when you pet him. If he's smart, he'll adapt to you somewhat, but he doesn't have responsibilities other than "be a cat".

If you get a wife, you get a wife so she will do things for you, specific things that are the responsibilities of wife, like care for your home, bear and raise your children, cook nutritious meals so you don't have to eat processed slop, look after your emotional well-being, and so on.

These girls didn't want to be held responsible for those things. As married women, they might have anticipated doing some of them, but only some of the time. Only when they felt like it.

The cat chases the string if and when it wants to, not because chasing the string is its job.

These young millenial women didn't realize it, but they wanted to be pets. And that's what they were in their college relationships. They hung out with guys when they wanted to, had sex with them when they wanted to, broke up with them for someone new when they wanted to.

Their relationships had no element of reciprocal responsibilities. They were perfectly at home with the idea of men having responsibilities to them, but they would repay those men if they chose, and how they chose, not how the men actually wanted.

And as I've said twice already, someone you have responsibilities to, but who has none to you, is a pet, or a child.

Since our ancestors, in a moment of foolishness and weakness, allowed women to vote, it is no longer legal to dole out the corrective spankings a great many of them both need and read pornographic novels about.

Therefore, the corrective measure, for any man who finds himself with a pet instead of a wife, is to withdraw from any husbandly duties and start actively searching for alternatives.

This can either result in a correction of the behavior, or the end of a relationship that offers no value. Either is acceptable.

This may strike some of you as dishonorable, but there is no honor in keeping a broken pact, or in serving those who despise you.

Men must have the pride and self-worth to say "I will be honored and respected, or I will depart to a place where I can be, even if I must be alone there."

Men must honor and respect themselves.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Dangote sold privately to his friends & family for $0.35 (N460) before it hit the shelves at all.

Davido said he invested $10M USD, that's 32M shares.

Unit price is currently N525, so Davido has already made a profit of $2.18M USD.

The foolish exist that the rich get richer.

[Kan, The Artwork Guy ✗🇳🇬 @FindingKan]

You can NEVER fumble a baddie.

They’re not scarce! There’s an endless supply of baddies and they’re everywhere.

The only kind of women you can fumble are

- GOOD WOMEN (Scarce)
- THROAT GOATS (Scarce)
- WOMEN THAT LIKES TO SPEND ON THEIR MEN (Scarcest)
- WOMEN THAT CAN HOLD A CONVERSATION (Scarcesttttttt)