The most destructive piece of internet lore ever created is the phrase: "If they wanted to, they would."
It sounds empowering, but it is actually deeply narcissistic. It assumes that a person’s actions are dictated 100% by their desire for you, while completely ignoring their capacity.
A partner can desperately want to give you the world, but if they are fighting a silent financial war, battling burnout, or dealing with a health crisis, their capacity is at zero. Measuring a stressed partner's love strictly by their ability to "perform" is a lethal mistake. "If they wanted to, they would" is the fastest way to lose a fiercely loyal partner over a temporary lack of bandwidth.
U-NI-BER-SI-DAD NG PI-LI-PI-NAS = IKULONG NA YAN, MGA KURAKOT
The UP Pep Squad, joined by the DLSU Pep Squad, turned the UP chant into a loud call against corruption.
La Salle ended it with an Oblation pose with UP’s bows and arrows.
WHAT A POETRY. @PhilippineStar
i had a quick chika with my classmates sa masters and they were working students in the academia as well, so i felt really relieved. Then they talked about how much units they were in for both in teaching and in classes (ms). Yawa they only taught like 9 units and only 6 units ms
and I live alone? I pay my own bills, get therapy, gym, and do everything alone. Jesus christ I think I am so overworked. No wonder I am always so empty at home and at work. I am so overworked I forgot to rest. I’m only 25 but why do I work like I’m running out of time?