I saw someone talking about plumbing and slaughtering cows. I burst out laughing at the thought of doing plumbing every day. He must be doing a terrible job if he has to fix something every day, and how many family members is he feeding if he has to slaughter every day? 😭😭😭
When the conversation about chores start and the gents start mentioning mowing the lawn, washing the car and changing light bulbs
Comparing once a week/occasional tasks with daily chores✋🏾
Women are saying if there’s a balanced or equal financial contribution to the household there must be equal contribution to the household chores as well.
Sounds fair to me. As a reasonable man, I can’t have my wife who earns R40k and pays school fees, car instalment, electricity and security waking up in the morning to prep the kids for school, make our lunch boxes, take the kids to school and come back after work to cook, wash dishes, check homework and get the kids ready for bed while I, with my R30k salary pay bond and buy groceries and my only chores are sweeping the yard and cleaning the pool once a week and changing light bulbs as and when the need arises.
Times have changed, equal contribution means financially and physically to household chores.
all i’m seeing is being the breadwinner makes men cheat more but being the financial dependent also makes them cheat to feel better. sounds like men as a class have issues with entitlement and emotional regulation
i want to mention that south africa was one of the african countries that walked out here. its consistent w the position we’ve taken internationally on israel. we were the first country to take israel to the ICJ over its atrocities in gaza and genocide of the palestinian people.