Anyone with a Dad in their life will find out one day the reason Fathers educate girls & tell them to ask Dad for money before anyone else, is because men understand the pitfalls of relying on another man for all your basic needs. Money is power & respect.
He sounds like a little boy that is over pampered and it surprised no is paying attention to him in that few months.
Next pregnancy let him carry it and let the wife care for him so that he can get the “have you eaten” and “how are you managing” he’s seeking for.
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I think you have comprehension problem.
Anyone who loses a spouse is more affected.
Now imagine a wife whose husband was wounded from the war. Come on podcast to say “during the period I was taking care of him, no one was paying attention to me, no one even asked if I’ll eat”
@Oziamara_ Before you go on to continue rambling
This is a quote from women across times in present and past cases. If you don't understand the point that's been passed then I cannot be able to help you.
https://t.co/wbkoZ9iOdx
@Rhakky_Koncept You people should learn to differentiate between being vulnerable and being stupid.
Not all cry from women are valid some are outright fooling . Same as what that man spilled in that interview. He should grow up
https://t.co/4zvpWW2ToD
Of its this video you are taking about. Please I beg you go back rewatch it and then imagine yourself as a pregnant wife whose husband is saying this things.
It’s like taking care of the sick and complaining that nobody is asking you how you’re doing.
I’ll sound crazy and will think crazy of any woman who wakes up one day to start yapping about not getting attention while taking care is a new mom.
Who is supposed to give you the attention? And for what exactly?
That you are incapacitated and cannot bath yourself or cook?
@Rhakky_Koncept They thanked you because it is not your primary duty. That’s her husbands duty.
You did what you have to do as a sibling.
Same way I did what I have to do as a sibling.
The question now is why is a husband expecting praises and special attention when he is performing his duty?
@Rhakky_Koncept How do you explain his comment “him being a father like a glorified house boy”?
How do you explain “nobody ask if I will eat”
Are you dumb?
@Rhakky_Koncept Or a sibling expecting praises when taking care of a brother or a sister.
If that person dies whose burden will it be?
Mine? Or the doctors in the hospital.
Your just confirming that some men prioritizes everything else in their life over taking care of their spouse in
@Rhakky_Koncept not related to the situation before you cross your mid twice and make you sad to the extent you get mad that you’re not being taken care of like the new mom. Please please don’t ever help anyone in that situation;wife,husband or sibling. You can as well hire someone else to help.
@Rhakky_Koncept Something else with my time ke! When my sisters life is on the line. My sister o
Please don’t get married o.
Nothing crossed my mind except just to make sure she was fine and the joy that made it. I don’t know how you guys think but If in such situation anything else
This whole saga reminds me of 2013. My sister was due to birth her first child and this birthed my first experience with childbirth as a care giver.
The labor lasted for 3 days and wasn’t progressing. How I was smile to stay awake for the whole 3 days without sleeping was a mir
In selflessness, amidst uncertainties and the new experience, what occupies your heart is the joy that you’re able to take good care of the new month.
Such that many years later when they look back they will remember how much you made their life easy.
That is the satisfaction.