I attract wealth and success in all areas of my life.
I am worthy of abundance and prosperity.
I am a magnet for wealth and prosperity.
I am worthy of all the good life has to offer and I deserve to be successful.
The universe is on my side.
I Affirm. ๐
I remember one time on facebook I saw a legit ad about getting free clothes and shoes from Nike, but the link has been compromised, I clicked on it and they required that I make a "one time payment" which I did, but till date I haven't received anything nor heard back from them
I remember one time on facebook I saw a legit ad about getting free clothes and shoes from Nike, but the link has been compromised, I clicked on it and they required that I make a "one time payment" which I did, but till date I haven't received anything nor heard back from them
There is one Super Story intro where a father asked the son to jump down from the roof that he would catch him, and asked the son to jump, only for him to pull away as the son fell flat. He then told the son not to trust anybody, even him his father.
I always wanted to address that.
As a parent, one of the best things you can give and should give to your kids, is trust. You owe them a duty to get them to trust you. A child must be able to say without doubt that "my father/mother said this, they would do it." You will not understand the importance of it until it is too late. There is no moral lesson in that super story, it was simply bad parenting. If I ask my child to jump, he should have 100% faith that daddy would catch him.
I don't have a child yet, but I avoid lying to kids. I would rather a child says "Relax, if Uncle Wisdom said he would do it, he would surely do it." How much more my own child? There is something parents used to do when we were growing up, where they ask you to go get your slippers and before you come back, they have disappeared. I learnt from my brother not to do that. If he isn't taking his son along, he tells him straight up. The worst that would happen is that, he would cry. If he tells him to go get his slippers, he would wait for him where he is. The boy has learnt to trust that daddy is not leaving him behind if he goes to get his shoes. Trust is fickle, it is easy to lose it.
Children are impressionable beings, how do you want them to see you? You are the first line of trust for your own child. You shouldn't be teaching them not to trust you. With trust comes security. The are the adult, the responsibility is on you. Trust is not a gift. You have to earn it.
Every single thread from you and other Twitter feminists has an intended goal and one destination;
Male authority is bad.
Female resistance is righteous.
The specific issue does not matter. You write your conclusions even before the argument begins.
Name change today.
Bride price tomorrow.
Submission next week.
All your agreements and disagreements back and forth literally has nothing to do with protecting women. Under the guise of concern and fighting for women, you make a caricature of and seek dissolution of every structure that gives a Nigerian husband any standing in his own home.
My dear, not every expectation is control. If a man says, this is how he wants his thing...in his house...as the head...he should have it. I have noticed you people's consistency in topics like this..
A man leads, it is ego.
A man claims, it is ownership.
A man expects, it is abuse.
Upholding tradition, it is trauma
By the day, it becomes more obvious that you people are bent on pushing an agenda to pathologize Nigerian marriage entirely.
We know these things.