It's really sad that men don't learn to take care of themselves and have to depend on the kindness of women just to be fed. All due respect, you can starve.
Guys are in my mentions complaining that a woman with an eight week old infant wouldn't take time away from the baby to make sure he has a hot dinner on the table when he comes home.
This is the point I am making : You, as father, should want that mother to spend as much time as possible bonding with that baby or caring for herself.
Putting your desire for a hot meal above these two shows a kind of whacked out thinking that has twisted your priorities.
You are a grown man, you don't need her to make you dinner, especially in this situation.
If you are old enough to make a baby, you're old enough to make a sandwich.