Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
The real cheat code in life? Finding a significant other who's unproblematic, insanely attractive to you, and fully committed to doing life together with you. Everything else just falls into place.
Do yall notice when yall stop talking to certain people you never ever see them again in real life? Like not the market, the mall, or outside like you just never see them anymore..