Some say it is xenophobia. How is it xenophobia🤔? South African villages have strict protocols. You can't even drink, smoke or dress anyhow you want to their cemeteries. Even unknown South Africans cannot be buried there without the approval of the tribal chief & community...
A man will visit his in-laws and be treated like royalty but a woman will visit her in-laws and be expected to audition for the role of a maid. The game is rigged.
Ladies, after divorce don't get married if you have kids . If you want to start a new marriage cash out your pension ,invest it for your kids . .even the house register it in their names. Start afresh with your new man. We've a new problem of men targeting divorcee for assets.