As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for sht it makes me uncomfortable. That's why I like men who just DO. Don't ask, just figure out what I need/want and DO IT
As independent as I am, I love to be babied. Acts of service are how I feel loved. I don't care about money. Just lighten my load. I'm too prideful to ask for help, but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, I know you really see me.