I don’t think people realise how many “functioning” suicidal people they’ve met, people still go to work, still joke, still pay bills. The human mind is capable of hiding extraordinary pain.
How "rich" look like when you grow up:
- Live 10 mins from work, 5 mins from gym
- Quiet neighbors
- Money left after bills
- Peace at work
- Drink coffee calmly
- Sleep without worry
- Laugh with old friends
- Travel monthly
- Wake up without alarm
- Say "no" when you want
Dear @apple,
I don’t know what is going on with your damn keyboard, but I have NEVER in the 19 years of owning iPhones, had to backspace, retype, start over, correct words as much as I am now! And what happened to autocorrect!? Is that not a thing anymore? Please fix this!
As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s mean, manipulative and not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. It’s your responsibility to take care of them
Top 5 Male canon events
1). Being made fun of for something you genuinely enjoy
2). Realizing you’re not going to achieve a dream you once believed in
3).Losing a close friend over time without a clear reason
4). Feeling like you’ve disappointed your parents or yourself
5). Experiencing deep loneliness even when surrounded by people
Heal. Your mom may never apologize to you, because she has conditioned herself to believe that she did right by you. She hasn't healed.
Heal. Your father may never apologize to you, because he can only see what he's done right. He hasn't healed.
Heal. Your family members may never apologize to you, because toxicity is what they were raised on. They haven't healed.
Heal. That "friend" may never apologize to you, because he/she isn't sorry. He/she hasn't healed.
If/when they reach their healing, they may seek your forgiveness. Be so healed that it won't even matter.
Heal for you. You owe it to yourself.
i confuse people. i have a happy personality and a sad soul. i’m bold but shy. i love deeply but sometimes i feel heartless. i’m healing and hurting at the same time. i’m dedicated to growth, but i self sabotage.
My therapist told me this, and it changed my life: "You're not healing to be able to handle trauma, pain, anxiety, depression. You're used to those. You're healing to be able to handle joy and to accept happiness back into your life."