This is what happens when you grew up as a secondary work slave 💀💀 and anything that was relaxing or fun was just “not productive” according to your parents
Social media created aa attention standard that no 1 person is able to fill. Nonchalant is always looked at as not caring because alot of yall been programmed to have someone internet stalker level obsessed over everything you do to feel like your wanted. Its not sustainable
@BeeeNICK@RubbBandGrant This is exactly what women who you cant express yourself to say 💀 at some point men realize that alot of women room for “understanding”is them prescribing emotions and thoughts to what your saying. Because alot of yall FEEL like you understand the man more than himself.
When will people understand this is the gender equivalent of “if you want me to not be racist you prove to me your a good black person”
This line of logic is only used to excuse the fact you haven’t done any internal work on yourself, so instead you require someone else to do it
They always talk about getting to know people first what do they think a friendship is? Even dating while romantic is still friendship building at its core its the literal foundation.
Some people do treat friendship as just a path to romance. That fear is understandable.
But romantic feelings developing between friends don't mean the friendship was fake. Sometimes they arise naturally because the friendship was real.
My wife and I were friends first. I suspected she liked me more than a friend, so I took time to seriously consider whether our values and futures aligned. Eventually, I asked her directly.
She admitted that she'd made excuses to spend more time with me and went outside her comfort zone to grow closer to me. She was honest about it and terrified that I would reject her because of it.
I didn’t treat her feelings as proof that our friendship was a lie. I simply said, “Okay. I’d like to give us a shot.”
Two years later, I married my best friend.
Someone hoping a friendship could become something more doesn't necessarily mean the friendship was fake. Sure, romantic love is very capable of ruining a friendship and a good friendship is terrifying to lose.
But friendship is not always ruined by romantic love.
Sometimes it becomes the foundation for it.
So do y’all wear the fit cause it’s cute like Alot of women say or to show your body off for people to lust over? You cant have your cake and eat it too