being cheated on hurts.
you know what’s even worse? figuring out what day it happened and realising they were able to act completely normal around you.😂
the hardest thing i've learned this year is that you can never force someone to communicate and work things out. you can't beg for someone to see that you are worth fighting for. and i stand by that now.
You’re told:
“go no-contact.”
“focus on yourself.”
“time will heal it.”
but no one tells you what to do at 2am when your chest hurts, your brain won’t stop replaying them, and the person you’re trying to heal from is sleeping peacefully while you’re learning how to live with the absence.
At 30, you start wanting more than just a boyfriend. You want a real partner, someone you can build a life with. Less small talk, more conversations about life, values and the future