@jon_d_doee You don't have a girlfriend yet. She's not transparent in what she's doing.
She's gaslighting you because she got that money in a way that is not pure.
@jon_d_doee Forgive her, accept her, know and family and vice versa, marry her and live with your problem.
I don't think you are a follower, if not, you won't be asking of what to do. Please marry her asap.
@jon_d_doe I don't know why people find it difficult to understand you.
Your teachings is what we see happening everyday. But, I just hope that people will understand that you want the best for everyone on this platform and not that you hate anyone as some people tag you. Thank you Sir.
This is how my lovely wife and I practice our marriage.
I don't know of any other marriage that would produce a better result than this one.
You Gen Zs need proper mentorship and guidance.
Your iberibe is too much.
Someone will soon come under this to give AI comment.
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1. Study her mother.
2. Listen to what she's not saying more than what she's saying.
3. Study the behaviors of her friends.
4. Watch how she asks for money.
5. Study her online behavior.
6. Study how she dresses and how sensitive she's in exposing her body parts.
7. Watch what she says about her family and how she regards her father.
8. When you're with your friends, watch how she interacts with them and if she's always careless in talking.
9. If she is demanding that you to give her money for her mother.
10. If she comes to your house and takes your food home without asking you first.
11. If she's always begging your friends for money, or going to your neighbors to beg for something.
12. If she's always defending a woman that cheats or cheated and was caught.
AJD.
@jon_d_doee You have to be definite and intentional at this point. You are ready to settle down, then look for a man that have a job and can take care of a family. Then date properly and prepare yourself for marriage.
A man can start small, but not empty. Be intentional about what you want.
It's very simple.
Once a lady is dating you for survival, she is going to cheat on you or cause you so much mental stress.
And this is more prevalent among under 25 ladies.
Because they're quite young, impressionable, broke, indecisive and adventurous.
As a grown man that wants to be serious with his relationship life, you need to be more logical and realistic with your choice bracket.
Employers do not just employ people because they're jobless.
They employ because they are looking for candidates who fit into the job role or description.
As a single man in his late 20s and in his 30s, see yourself as an employer.
And because you know that you're looking for a wife who would be the mother of your children, you must make sure that the woman fits into the role.
You can't be dating an under 25 with little or no experience or qualifications, and expect that you won't be burned or suffer loses.
The risk is far lesser with the above 25s.
Because most of them are now better focused, made their mistakes and learned from them.
They're now looking at being a wife and a mother.
1. Most are working and are graduates.
2. They're facing family and society pressure to bring a husband home.
3. Every failed relationship that they experience after 25, inches them closer to the end of their prime. So they want it to work.
4. They understand the value of money better.
5. They mostly feed themselves and hardly depend on their parents or siblings.
6. They know what to do most of the time, without being told or pushed to do them.
7. They're within the same generation bracket as you are.
These points are the logical and realistic things that you must consider before you go into a serious relationship.
Stop looking for tight totos.
All totos are elastic in nature, and even at 50, totos would still be tight and enjoyable.
And it doesn't have meter.
It's only a woman that can tell you how many penis has visited her toto.
You cannot guess by using her age.
What is visible, measurable and verifiable by you is her character, her upbringing and who her mother is.
I am telling you this as someone who knows a lot of things.
You may not like what I am saying, but this is exactly what I would tell my son when he comes of age.
Stop acting tasty and foolish around these young girls.
They're not on your level.
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@abbycorners_@jon_d_doee Even biblically, Adam is older than Eve.
Adam was created first before Eve the helpmate was created.
So, a Man must be older than the woman he will marry. PEACE!
@jon_d_doee Some people just comment without a deep and meaningful thinking.
If you are in her situation, will you do that when you meet the guy? Moreover, she might not know the reason.
Couples should try their best to avoid a situation like this for their children.
I wish her the best.
@nosafk@Cobratate Good heart without money as a man who's in love will later become a bad heart.
It may not be too much, but as a man, you can't enjoy a woman without money.
Finance bring about a good romance in the diary of women.
You can disagree, but it won't negate the fact. Peace!